Hi,
I floated the idea of watching my fiance have sex with another man, and she seemed open to it. When I asked if she'd really do it, she said something to the effect of, "if thats what you want." I thought that this seemed hesitant, but then maybe she wants to do it, but doesn't want to sound slutty? Either way, when i brought it up later, she said that she was afraid that the change in dynamic would make me look at her differently. I asked her that it wouldn't, but we haven't really talked about it since. I was wondering if anybody had ideas for small steps that i could take toward the end goal of her being comfortable in decisions Siriano with other guys.
For instance, i thought that maybe she'd be more open to a threesome with me and another guy, and maybe that could be something of an ice breaker. I haven't brought that up yet though.
Any suggestions would be appreciated.
**I'm not really looking for Amber's like, "you just need honest communication" or anything like that lol i know**
I floated the idea of watching my fiance have sex with another man, and she seemed open to it. When I asked if she'd really do it, she said something to the effect of, "if thats what you want." I thought that this seemed hesitant, but then maybe she wants to do it, but doesn't want to sound slutty? Either way, when i brought it up later, she said that she was afraid that the change in dynamic would make me look at her differently. I asked her that it wouldn't, but we haven't really talked about it since. I was wondering if anybody had ideas for small steps that i could take toward the end goal of her being comfortable in decisions Siriano with other guys.
For instance, i thought that maybe she'd be more open to a threesome with me and another guy, and maybe that could be something of an ice breaker. I haven't brought that up yet though.
Any suggestions would be appreciated.
**I'm not really looking for Amber's like, "you just need honest communication" or anything like that lol i know**