Hello all
Typically Dominants are thought of as those who administer discipline to submissives who require and desire it. However, do submissives really need it more than we do?
Case: When i was 17 i was in a M/s relationship with my now ex gf, I frequently gave her chastity punishments of upto a month without sex or orgasming as I knew this would drive her loco. However due to my own hormonal desires I couldn't not screw her brains out before the deadline was due. I came to view myself as a failure as a Master in this particular area and it really got to me.
So my question is this, do the Dominants require more discipline than the submissive in order to see punishments through? Or is it just me?
As, for me, in many cases, whenever i punished my sub it really got to me that I had to punish her, except for the spankings, we both loved those
Typically Dominants are thought of as those who administer discipline to submissives who require and desire it. However, do submissives really need it more than we do?
Case: When i was 17 i was in a M/s relationship with my now ex gf, I frequently gave her chastity punishments of upto a month without sex or orgasming as I knew this would drive her loco. However due to my own hormonal desires I couldn't not screw her brains out before the deadline was due. I came to view myself as a failure as a Master in this particular area and it really got to me.
So my question is this, do the Dominants require more discipline than the submissive in order to see punishments through? Or is it just me?
As, for me, in many cases, whenever i punished my sub it really got to me that I had to punish her, except for the spankings, we both loved those