Hello, everyone. My girlfriend and I are interested in trying some things and I need honest answers about how to set it up. I admitted to her that I had thoughts of her being with another guy and she opened up and said she had been wanting to try it. She seems to really be into the mental/humiliation aspect of it and I'm comfortable with it because we have a really strong trust and I know ultimately we will be safe and whatever roleplay happens we are going home together and both enjoying it. I thought I'd take her to a glory hole and let her try things out while I watch or take part. Seems the "tamest" or least risky. She brought up the idea of having a party at our place and we'd get high (we both like pnp, coke, etc) and wander off the bedroom with a guest. We discussed it and actually came up with scenarios and turn ons. She'd "pretend" to be sneaking at it and during tell the guy to get a friend. One thing I wanted, and she really liked, was at some point, a guy comes out, whispers to another, "dude, she's taking it up the ass". I'd want to quietly go in, and see some dude offering her a line, she begs for it but he's like, "not until i'm in your ass" he puts it in front of her, teases, and finally lets her have it right as he goes in. (this is her, not me...) she starts begging for more and says she'll do anything, lets them piss on her, wipe cum on her face, slap her tits, choke her. i was honestly surprised, but very turned on by it. So, is this not a safe place to start our journey, is this too much too soon? She also talked about a pubic fantasy that i pretend not to know her. I feel like we are very honest and open and trustful, but I can't help wonder if i'm just being a perv. I see an honest desire from her and i love seeing her happy so i don't feel like i'm pressuring her.