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Welcome back! And thank you very much for being your amazing self!

I think Devil Dom really eloquently put everything I wanted to say and more. I wanted to add a little to what he said. I think one of the most important things when playing with pain is the intent behind it. In other words, what do you want the sub and yourself to feel or what is the effect...

So I might be a little late to the conversation. Please forgive the long essay 1. Stereotyping is exhausting, especially in kink - There have always been people stereotyping everything under the sun. It's easier to ignore for other things but for something as intimate as kink, it just hits a...

So I have this thing that excites me that I have always found difficult to articulate. I really enjoy putting together shopping lists with someone for transformation/play sessions. It builds up anticipation and really scratches that experimenting itch. It is like building something together...

Seems like an old thread but I'd love to add. Zippers have been extensively discussed and I love them. Other than that one of my favorites was when I used them on my face. It was sensually overloading and my heart was racing like never before. Here's where I put them: - 1 on the septum and 1 on...

The guilt is probably difficult to contain depending on what's driving it (social conditioning, etc) but in my opinion what is really important is having an open, honest conversation with your partner. I had a playmate once who was uncomfortable with me subbing to someone while I was domming...

Oh please don't be sorry at all! I didn't mean to criticize you in any way. Also by hard I meant they are a lot spicier 😇. I do not recommend shoving them up there either. Hope I did not offend you😅

The closest thing to jalapenos is the large green chilli's we find in India (I prefer those for such tasks since the smaller ones go wayyyyyy harder and I find it too much). Sorry Nova, just to give you context, jalapenos are not really known or available in India where OP is from. Also I...

I am glad I could help. Congratulations and good luck with your new dynamic! I hope to hear more about your successes :D

Again. I really was not suggesting exhibitionism or posting pics at all. In response to her " As for forming small habits to let go, could you prehaps give me a random example of what you mean so I can adapt it to my own situation?" I was giving an example of my own experience. It was in no way...

Completely fair. And I understand the risk I am taking. Just to be clear, I am in no way asking the OP to post pics of herself. I only intended to demonstrate how small steady habits helped me overcome some fears/inhibitions I had. I agree with every point you made and thank you for your concern😇

Sure! To give you an example. I had real trouble with sharing my pictures initially. It was scary to know how they might be used or if it even is the right thing to do. Will I be immoral for doing this? Questions like these would torment me. So I started small. I started taking sfw pics and...

Hello Thank you so much for sharing your experience, vulnerability and articulating your thoughts so well. I have definitely heard the same things from a lot of people in the community and have had a partner who experienced the same. I have always been the type to want to experiment and try...

You are talking about a slave who has given up all rights. Even then I am not sure how many people can truly achieve this state. And without communication of any form it isn't really a dynamic in the first place

So true of so many things - a good workout, a good sex session, a good rope session, a good spanking session. Applies ot all of these!!

I can imagine a lot more than arms being sore if they all have the kind of ups and downs in this story :3

Definitely second sebzzzero's opinion. One thing that's a bit of a turn off for me which stops me from replying is entitlement though. Like I am a Mistress/Dom I deserve to be worshipped. Or I am sharing my experiences, I deserve to be validated. At the end of the day this is an online forum...

Hahaha. For a second there thought it was real. What a roller coaster🤣

That's a nice cage you have! It's one of my favorites too. So I don't know your limits or likes but I am going to throw some ideas out there and please feel free to use any that you'd like. 1. Spanking, especially OTK. The pain can be chosen according to your limits and it can be humiliating...

Oh hello! I am a switch male and I found your profile interesting. Your kinks are pretty close to some of the things I have been eager to explore recently and I would love to see if we can set up a dynamic. Let me know if you'd like to talk some time