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So. I know this is pretty old but I wanted to talk about it and not create a whole new thread. I tried this today and I don't know if I have the effect yet. I think it might not fully stop me from having an orgasm but I definitely feel a lot more resistance and a lotlre tingling than before...

Predicament bondage exercises are my favorite. Like squatting with nipple clamps and balls tied with weights . Push ups/etc with the same concept

That's a wonderful and detailed task! The waxing part is super scary though. Thank You!!

Congratulations! I have the qiui one too but could never really bring myself to shock myself😅

Definitely! Like others mentioned I believe it does take a long time. However this kind of conditioning has been hastened through trancing for me. Habits without that however, has taken me a long time to form. Good luck!

One thing that I think would be helpful is attending munches. Definitely not for sex, but if you'd like to get comfortable in the kink space, I think a good munch (not the sex/kink parties hosted by clubs) can really help create a safe space to explore yourself. Eventually attending play parties...

That looks great! Wonderful job! I see quite a few rope marks too. Are they from additions to this bondage or remnants from another if you don't mind me asking

Completely second subzzzero's suggestions. I promise you it's real and I have experienced it more than once. I have found that having rituals which I condition over regular life help in replenishing the dopamine a little. I go out to a movie and then to one of my favorite restaurants and...

Probably too late but as far as the form goes, it does seem like they are in a 24/7 relationship since they live together and generally consider themselves to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Not being in a 24/7 relationship probably meant more as are you in a one night fling or are you just...

To be completely honest, I think the dynamic you want is completely fair with someone you wanna marry. It's just a multidimensional dynamic instead of the 1D sexualized version of a relationship people fantasize about. This is more grounded in reality and representative if someone willing to...

Amazing! Do you tuck?

Fair fair. I tend to need a bit of both. I haven't watched Oppenheimer yet (saving it for later). Sorry to the OP and everyone for the tangent. Gonna stop this conversation on the thread now. Was fun talking to you @MercyHunter !

Nooo! You are not liking it?! It's such a fun movie as long as you turn your mind off!!!

Definitely some good advice on this thread even though it's more than a year old😇

I have been fortunate to strike off quite a few of them, but here are a few still left - Being bound and isolated in multiple layers of latex and leather from head to toe, clamps, electrodes and vibrators in strategic places, with complete sensory deprivation - including ear plugs (Probably...

I absolutely agree! This is the best! Nana to Kaoru and Sunstone are my all time BDSM favorites! They could only be surpassed by sleepygimp's works if only their story had a little bit more gravitas.

My favorite unusual gags are one in which the tongues forced out. The simplest one is using chopsticks and rubber bands like so but on the tongue. https://images.app.goo.gl/sckdBBuMgVyEyt577 Another one which is kinda painful is clothespins on lips and tongue. Trust me it becomes very hard to talk!

Love this thread! Thank you so much for the instructions. I recently had set a task for a playmate which needed such bondage and used this http://www.freetied.com/articles/shibari/8.php . Feel free to take a look at this too for ideas!

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On my opinion, this is really a discussion to be had completely outside the dynamic with the two people having an equal standing. If it was already discussed before the dynamic began, sure you should be able to go ahead. But if it was not part of the negotiation, this should be a discussion to...