advice

I'm new to this whole BDSM thing but a few of my friends have been helping me learn more about it. I am a submissive type naturally but I can't submit to someone that I can't be romantically involved with. I submit mostly out of love, and I enjoy having control taken from me. I particularly like...

So. This is my first time publically acknowledging that I have a kink. I am a bit scared about announcing this but I need to get this out there somehow. Growing up, I've realized I need spice with sex and I have been without it for some time. I just feel unfulfilled after sex and I don't think...

My girlfriend and I are in a dom/sub relationship and is a mix of master/pet and master/slave??? Anyways I have restrictions on her obviously like she can't touch herself without my permission. She knows her punishment is being spanked or whipped, and we consensually agreed on these aspects...

So my Dom and I haven't been together very long, but it's been incredibly intense for both of us. We've connected on many levels, not just sex, and he's been talking about collaring me, but I'm not so sure I'll accept. Part of me is very excited about this and would love to. I love him very...

hiya! im a total newbie to all this, but i am very very curious about bdsm dynamics and what it's all about. i was just wondering if anyone would like to enlighten me more about the subject like personal experiences and such. you know, things i cant learn off wikipedia. haha :p

i am an awakened vanilla and i need some advice about my dominant. im new to all this and dont have anyone to talk to though los angeles is so big. i have done research on what it means to be a sub and what it means to be a dom. the submisive submits because the submissive knows her/his dom will...

Okay, so this isn't some "hey everybody, pay attention to me cause I'm well endowed", it's a genuine thing that I hope that some of you can help me with. In the past when I've been with girls, I've had no problem with making us both orgasm however because of the size of my member, they always...

Hi Iv been into bdsm for a few years and I have a boyfriend now (my sub) and I am his mistress and we have been doing kinky things for a while but we want to move into a 24/7 sub dom relationship. So I would love to speak to any experienced mistress who might be able to give me some advice? If...

I tried the dom role for my girlfriend last week & we both really enjoyed it but i think its safe to say i wasnt a great dom lol so i was looking for some advice on things to do & anything els that i missing or just dont know about lol

How can I get my girlfriend to be more dominate in the bedroom? I drop little hints that I like her being in control she likes the idea of it. But when it comes to sex I feel like she's afraid to actually go through with it. I'm a switch so I'm dominate as well but sometimes I just want her to...

Hello, As stated, I am looking for a collar for my female slave, preferably one that looks like a necklace, the goal here is to find a collar that she can wear in public without publically outing herself, and preferably can have my name on it. Black will probably be best. Thanks, m.

Hi guys I am an 18 year female slave. I have been with my master for just about 6 month. He has been on a three week trip and will returning in 3 days. He has told me to make 5nights of "play" as we call it. I am out of ideas and need your help. I am open to everything. My master will be...

Hello Everyone, I was talking to a friend about cybering but being nervous about dominating online. He suggested that I go on anonymous cyber chats and try to dominate there. It made sense. You can change your user name and no one knows you. If you mess up or do something embarrassing, you can...