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- Thread starter Emilian
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That's not how daddy's work. A true daddy cares about his baby. And will take all of her needs into consideration. If you really want to have permission to play with someone then you have to get to know them it's not just about you and what you want. It's a two way street. But good luck
I was going to say this same thing after reading it all. It’s kinda funny cuz it reads more like a master slave write up at best than a daddy little. Also that whole “I run everything you get nothing approach” is the one most times coming from the people with little to no actual experience. Living in that porn 50 shades fantasy mindset.
These two parts especially. This proves you know little to nothing of the daddy little Exp. It just reads up as someone who’s misinformed and really lacks experience with the kink life all together. Coming on so strong and harsh as if that’s going to impress a potential sub. If anything this all really shows lots of red flags. And even the most slutty subs into humiliation degradation would probably pass that up.
You’d have gotten better results just admitting the lacking experience and being honest here. If in fact this post is how you see kink. You’re going to be sadly mistaken and let down.
These two parts especially. This proves you know little to nothing of the daddy little Exp. It just reads up as someone who’s misinformed and really lacks experience with the kink life all together. Coming on so strong and harsh as if that’s going to impress a potential sub. If anything this all really shows lots of red flags. And even the most slutty subs into humiliation degradation would probably pass that up.
You’d have gotten better results just admitting the lacking experience and being honest here. If in fact this post is how you see kink. You’re going to be sadly mistaken and let down.
Thank you I was hoping a Dom would speak up in defense also. I am a true sub and my daddy has control but he also knows what I like and need and I do have the right to say no without fear of punishment if it's a true no and I'm not just being a brat.
Never said i had experience as a Daddy i have some as a Dom and wanted to try something new so i come up with this maybe its not perfect but it fit my style and I've mange to find partners in the past ,
P.S you need to chill yo seriously you could have just ignore my post why being such an ass you is that your life looking at posts in this forum and trying to ruins people day over every little thing you don't find to your liking why make this personnel with a complete stranger.
your first post was straight to the point, is this one really necessary ? your first post made me refeclt the second one made me lose interested in this style so thanks i guess .
I didn't mean to discourage you just give you another perspective and to me it's better to get it from a Dom and a sub side of things. Sorry you took offense
I’m not sorry in the least. You can make whatever claims you want. I called it exactly like it shows. I don’t care what someone else thinks of how I spend my time. If I can help even one sub from falling into a shit show of a mess with someone who’s inexperienced and just blathering off what they saw in porn and movies then I consider it worth it.
If you wanted support on a new thing you’re not familiar with. Fake it til you make it is not the way. So exactly what was stated in my post is accurate, you lack experience. There’s tons of resources to look up to learn about dynamic types before just half assing it. You didn’t even do that. Then you get pissy when you’re called out on it by two separate members of two separate roles?
Like I said in my first post. The community will gladly welcome newcomers with no experience and help them. We all started somewhere. But when you come in faking it we can all see it from a mile away.
A simple I’ve never been a daddy before would have made a world of difference in your post.
If you wanted support on a new thing you’re not familiar with. Fake it til you make it is not the way. So exactly what was stated in my post is accurate, you lack experience. There’s tons of resources to look up to learn about dynamic types before just half assing it. You didn’t even do that. Then you get pissy when you’re called out on it by two separate members of two separate roles?
Then this little jab here. Trying to guilt her over speaking up for herself and other subs who might not know better. This shows it all.
Like I said in my first post. The community will gladly welcome newcomers with no experience and help them. We all started somewhere. But when you come in faking it we can all see it from a mile away.
A simple I’ve never been a daddy before would have made a world of difference in your post.
I'm not sorry I spoke up for myself and others. I am still new to this myself. But will not let someone walk all over me. Thank you
So no you make my decision for me as well ? you decided that I tried to guilt her why ? i just said that the first post she made made me reflect and the second post was it really necessary ? , she made after YOU made it personnel(dont tell me that it wasn't ), and maybe you were right about part of what you said but you also decide that I get 'pissy' I'm annoyed by you simple as that the way that you speak the way you look to start fights with strangers there are so many different ways you could have made you post but YOU made it into a personal attack and you encourage another being to make it personal as well . funny thing I'm not even arguing with parts of what you said about my post and yet you try to make it about that and call me the manipulator . Rich.
When I read you previous post I felt bad I don't even understand why you apologies ... wanted to write a completely different replay to what I'm about to write and good thing I didn't(another guilt attempt right ...) ,unlike what he said i didn't try to guilt her I just don't like it when people go to far , like i said your first post make me reflect the second tougher with that guy post was to much in my eyes like way go so far and why deice by yourself(the both of you ) that every word I type is a guilt trip .
I just give up think what you want(both of you) maybe you are right parts of what you said made me reflect but the way(subzzzero) talk you cant talk me its not a personnel attack so many ways you could have said it I cant believe I dragged myself into this 'conversation' because one guy that just spend his days looking for fights.
Hold your horses, cowboy.
This thread implies that unfortunatelly you cannot read the room.
This topic should have ended yesterday, when all sides shared that looking for a Little was not your thing.
Today you came back yo the topic and posted posts with manipulative twists and gaslighting others.
Now let the other sides respond to your post without newer responses and let topic be. And try to find yourself whoever you are looking for without making such a fuzz on your second day here.
Have a nice day.
This thread implies that unfortunatelly you cannot read the room.
This topic should have ended yesterday, when all sides shared that looking for a Little was not your thing.
Today you came back yo the topic and posted posts with manipulative twists and gaslighting others.
Now let the other sides respond to your post without newer responses and let topic be. And try to find yourself whoever you are looking for without making such a fuzz on your second day here.
Have a nice day.
.... another person that decide that I'm a manipulative great , i cant read the room apparently you cant read I give up , and why shouldn't I respond when when i'm called a manipulative person and that i walk all over people , and you even drag yourself into this so you could kiss ass , and I'm not the one that made a fuzz , for real look at what you write "Now let the other sides respond to your post without newer responses and let topic be" so i i'm not allowed to comment about being called a manipulative person . and i do read the room i do feel dump getting trigger by this but what give you the rights to tell me I should just take it .
Have a nice day cowboy
I'm out ban me or whatever i said what i had to say I'm not going to let some asshole walk all over me because he has 1400 posts in this forum , its obvious what's going to happen just ban me ang get this over with I'm out either way , post what you want say what you want I let myself get to much mad over this little thing to much already .
This is an open public discussion forum. You will get comments and opinions you don’t like. It will get detailed and sometimes people get offended by not matching with others thoughts. You wouldn’t get banned for having a discussion. No one has done anything here to deserve banning. Admin is very fair in regards to that. There’s tons of Convos similar to this one. With all sides differing views.
Look at it as a way to learn and grow.
As for how you were approached by others including myself. It’s the tone of your first post that lead to that. And the reactions now you give show that it was all also a fantasy front. Again you get what you put out. You put out a hardass “I’m the master of all pushing limits subs serve me” type post. That is what got you the tone of responses you received.
Look at it as a way to learn and grow.
As for how you were approached by others including myself. It’s the tone of your first post that lead to that. And the reactions now you give show that it was all also a fantasy front. Again you get what you put out. You put out a hardass “I’m the master of all pushing limits subs serve me” type post. That is what got you the tone of responses you received.
Personally I think you're a danger to subs and the community not to mention women in general. You're gaslighting and narcissistic, incell and nice guy vibes. Ive been a sub for 12 years and I would be telling subs to avoid you. Simply put you're not safe for a stable relationship especially not a kink one.
The first post is just simply disregarding the D/S relationship and dynamic, if you don't know how Daddy's and littles operate then ask, if you don't know how Master and slave dynamics work ask. The majority of the kink community is safe and you do not present as safe or in all honesty stable.
You can't handle criticism, you can't understand why two and now four people have stated what was wrong and they did it in a very kind way. I'm not going to sugar coat mine. You are not safe for online or in real life play nor for this server. You literally went my ego is the most important thing here instead of taking what people said and fixing your post.
The first post is just simply disregarding the D/S relationship and dynamic, if you don't know how Daddy's and littles operate then ask, if you don't know how Master and slave dynamics work ask. The majority of the kink community is safe and you do not present as safe or in all honesty stable.
You can't handle criticism, you can't understand why two and now four people have stated what was wrong and they did it in a very kind way. I'm not going to sugar coat mine. You are not safe for online or in real life play nor for this server. You literally went my ego is the most important thing here instead of taking what people said and fixing your post.
