Am I a switch?

[Batman123]

Hello everyone,
For a long time I didn't understand what aroused me and I finally got it even though it's a bit weird.
It seems my sole drive is empathy, I will not get any excitement from someone who is not turned on by me / our play and on the opposite, the more into it the person is, the more aroused I also am. So wether it is a slave or dom or anything else.
I feel it's not that I am happy to see them enjoying themselves, but literally that I share their feelings.

So to explore this I thought about trying out kinky plays since you guys (I think) are really into what you're doing.
Since I don't really care what the roles are and I feel i could enjoy anything that turns on my playmate I'm guessing I should be a switch hence my message here?

This is my very first dip into kinky community so I might be misreading this. Looking to know if some of you are like me / got advices / reads on my situation.

 

[MasterSadistKor]

Yes, seems like you are a switch, as far as I know from hearing your situation. If you can perform both D/S side to match your partner's will, that makes you a switch. I'd recommend you having a deep conversation with your partner about your orientation, I'm sure you both will be satisfied: )

 

[LadyGrace321]

Yes, seems like you are a switch, as far as I know from hearing your situation. If you can perform both D/S side to match your partner's will, that makes you a switch. I'd recommend you having a deep conversation with your partner about your orientation, I'm sure you both will be satisfied: )

This person joined July 1st, made this post then left July 1st and never came back. Look at profiles and dates.

 

[MasterSadistKor]

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This person joined July 1st, made this post then left July 1st and never came back. Look at profiles and dates.

Oh yes, missed the dates. Thx for informing!

 

[Naughty nova]

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Oh yes, missed the dates. Thx for informing!

Unfortunately lots of people do that post once then run

 

[MasterSadistKor]

Unfortunately lots of people do that post once then run

Well, it seems quite hard to find someone to talk about these issues deeply....

 

[LadyGrace321]

Well, it seems quite hard to find someone to talk about these issues deeply....

Are you needing to talk about some issues you might be having or maybe just want to have a deep discussion? Keep it here and I'm sure others will join in. I'll respond.

 

[MasterSadistKor]

Are you needing to talk about some issues you might be having or maybe just want to have a deep discussion? Keep it here and I'm sure others will join in. I'll respond.

Thank you so much for the kind words: ) I just meant that I'd like to find someone to talk about kinky stuff, and it indeed is hard to find someone interested and matches my interest: ) I've been browsing through now for a few days to find out how this website works, and think I might post on my own to look for chat partners

 

[LadyGrace321]

Thank you so much for the kind words: ) I just meant that I'd like to find someone to talk about kinky stuff, and it indeed is hard to find someone interested and matches my interest: ) I've been browsing through now for a few days to find out how this website works, and think I might post on my own to look for chat partners

Reply to more posts your interested in. You've barely shown your... dedication? That might not be the right word. Your very new and your name implies your generic and won't be staying long.

 

[MasterSadistKor]

Reply to more posts your interested in. You've barely shown your... dedication? That might not be the right word. Your very new and your name implies your generic and won't be staying long.

Thx for the advice, as the culture I live in was very conservative with kinky stuff, I'm not that familiar to exposing actual self. I'd take your advice in mind

 

[LadyGrace321]

Thx for the advice, as the culture I live in was very conservative with kinky stuff, I'm not that familiar to exposing actual self. I'd take your advice in mind

Well.. here, exposing your raw self can be freeing. No not pictures or who you are, but what your real desires are. We don't judge.

 

[MasterSadistKor]

Well.. here, exposing your raw self can be freeing. No not pictures or who you are, but what your real desires are. We don't judge.

Why I got to like this site a lot I'll start by changing my nicknames maybe

 

[LadyGrace321]

Why I got to like this site a lot I'll start by changing my nicknames maybe

You'll have to wait a period of time first. Don't make a new profile.

 

[MasterSadistKor]

You'll have to wait a period of time first. Don't make a new profile.

Just changed my nickname for this account. Waiting for moderator's approval: )

 

[LadyGrace321]

Just changed my nickname for this account. Waiting for moderator's approval: )

Nice!!

 

[LossingcontroleSub/Dom]

Hello everyone,
For a long time I didn't understand what aroused me and I finally got it even though it's a bit weird.
It seems my sole drive is empathy, I will not get any excitement from someone who is not turned on by me / our play and on the opposite, the more into it the person is, the more aroused I also am. So wether it is a slave or dom or anything else.
I feel it's not that I am happy to see them enjoying themselves, but literally that I share their feelings.

So to explore this I thought about trying out kinky plays since you guys (I think) are really into what you're doing.
Since I don't really care what the roles are and I feel i could enjoy anything that turns on my playmate I'm guessing I should be a switch hence my message here?

This is my very first dip into kinky community so I might be misreading this. Looking to know if some of you are like me / got advices / reads on my situation.

Hi there, there is a whole section on here dedicated to switch. You'll fine your tribe there .
Switchers like to play both role sub/Dom ect. No judgement and eazy to chat with. Happy hunting....