bdsm-limits.com
I think these give a general perspective to someone, but are not specific enough to know and assume generalised format of BDSM activities. The spectrum of BDSM is wider than any of these allow. The practice of BDSM is the merger of the minds and bodies involved.
I may be all the things listed, figured out what I like and don't, but I would also be turned on and in my happy place, sucking on breast and drinking the milk and pure bliss while fucking. Nowhere does it ask this, because it isn't listed as a kink or BDSM.
I can and do deliver pain in any format, prefer the breasts, butt or vagina and not likely to say no to providing a good whipping. These things become available by the desire of the receiver. Who is also willing to explore or push their limits - with the basic sane consent and agreed method to pause/stop. I think these reports can be shallow, pigeonhole, stereotype and risk you thinking you can find a match off them, in practice you find opposites or similar groupings but not the finite detail that make a match.
In practice, we all know finding your yin to your yang is a more difficult process. Particularly if it would be more than 2 enjoying BDSM or Kink activities along with their sex.
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mal (Hunter)
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