Bondage as a fetish?

[LadyGrace321]

Anything can be a fetish right? Let's define fetish for all the newbies. A form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object, activity, or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.
Bondage..., there's slavery and servitude, being bound by compulsion, dept bondage, and finally sadomasochistic sexual practices or physically restraining a partner for sexual gratification.

I'm not entirely sure about gratification.. does it mean reaching that big O? Let's define it! Gratification means;
Pleasure.. especially when gained through sexual desire.

Do any of you kinksters have a fetish about being bound?

 

[Gengis]

There is a big big big trust exchange in this play style, with low levels of danger if done corretly, since is one of the , in my oppinion, biggest power exchange in the game.
Also, i think every fetish has a certain level of embarrasment endurance that adds to mood.

Those two points are what make senes to me. Trust and overcoming embarrasement.

I like the... mercyless feeling of being tied, wether its to a bed or a chair. Having your partner tease you or doing whatever your limmits marked, like some low heat wax drops. My my favorite is the old X shape tied to the bed. Wrist and ankles tied to each corner of it, also... for more expossure, securing the knees so legs cant be closed.

As for tying my partner, i find shibari (like a full body swimsuit) extremely hot. The feeling of tying the knots, navigating the body with my , i wish, steady hands.
Oh!!! it also can be wear outside, just like underwear. The embarrasing feeling of knowing you are outside, with a rope carefully tied... it is something!!!

And finally as for tying bodyparts, aside from limbs, boobs, nipples, clit, cock and balls are the protagonists.

CAREFULL TYING JOINTS! could lead to injury.
Also, either u make all knots fast release or u have a surgical scisors (or round pointed that wont hurt ur partner) to cut fast through ropes if needed

For newbies, u can play the scene of being tied but not really or with a really loose knot that allows you to scape fast if u feel something wrong.
Instead of ropes u can use bed sheets or shoelaces for "small things"


As for the big O... i dont know if any1 will get to it by only being in bondage, not me, but the trust and embarrasement, added to the forced restraint, certainly does help.

 

[KInky.switch]

Anything can be a fetish right? Let's define fetish for all the newbies. A form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object, activity, or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.
Bondage..., there's slavery and servitude, being bound by compulsion, dept bondage, and finally sadomasochistic sexual practices or physically restraining a partner for sexual gratification.

I'm not entirely sure about gratification.. does it mean reaching that big O? Let's define it! Gratification means;
Pleasure.. especially when gained through sexual desire.

Do any of you kinksters have a fetish about being bound?

That is a good question. I personaly find bondage really exciting, for me it was the first thing that got me to word of BDSM, and it is a big part of my life since then. Ideally useing the different type"s of ropes. Some are softer some are more hursh, and it is for me a big turn on. I wouldn't say that it is about the "power" above the other, more of the look of the other in restrain's is just thrilling.

But also there is a selfbondage wich is a little different story. At first it is thrilling and experimenting, but after some time it start's to get more and more common, so the thrill and excitment fade's after some time...

 

[LadyGrace321]

As for the big O... i dont know if any1 will get to it by only being in bondage,

I came Very close to orgasm by thinking about it. It's one of my kinks.

 

[Gengis]

I came Very close to orgasm by thinking about it. It's one of my kinks.

Then u can try something like this. It should be easy to wear for extended periods of time, but as allways, start slow, try for 10 minutes if bloodflow is correct (if something is too tight ulll notice earlier). They u can try either tight it more or stay for longer time.

 

[LadyGrace321]

Hahaha!!! Not on myself. I want to do the honors of tieing her up or strapping him down.

 

[KInky.switch]

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Then u can try something like this. It should be easy to wear for extended periods of time, but as allways, start slow, try for 10 minutes if bloodflow is correct (if something is too tight ulll notice earlier). They u can try either tight it more or stay for longer time.

Karada is great tie but hard to tie up correctly, the way it will not slide or break while moving. Imo it's easier to start with just chest harness, wich is basicly similar but way easier for begginer

 

[Gengis]

well... i actually didnt say who should be tied xD I said you should try.
as for me... it feels like wrapping a gift for myself. those are the best gifs, u never miss xD
Paying attention to make burnings with the rope (or making them on purpose).
Securing and pulling, then realeasing a bit cor comfort..... it does give you all the power, even if your patner is not restrained.
And the blushing is the best, as said previously, i tried on others that were not into kink (at first)... Oh the blushing of a "not used to be embarrased" girl...

 

[LadyGrace321]

My very 1st time with bondage type things, I didn't tie her down. I layed her panties over her hands that were placed above her head. All play would stop if she moved those hands. She edged herself by moving.

 

[Gengis]

Karada is great tie but hard to tie up correctly, the way it will not slide or break while moving. Imo it's easier to start with just chest harness, wich is basicly similar but way easier for begginer

is not easy, but its sexy. And its even sexier to fail and re try, and train your skills in orther to use it on someone

 

[Gengis]

My very 1st time with bondage type things, I didn't tie her down. I layed her panties over her hands that were placed above her head. All play would stop if she moved those hands. She edged herself by moving.

acting like being tied its a nice way to start. Or maybe using your own hands as cuffs

 

[KInky.switch]

is not easy, but its sexy. And its even sexier to fail and re try, and train your skills in orther to use it on someone

Yes you are right with that, i can't count the hour's spend on practicing the tie's before i got a gut's to try it on someone else

 

[LadyGrace321]

@Andyswitch have you done this before?

 

[Andyswitch]

Idk exactly but I haven't explored much yet only few think I have done when I be sub is light cbt teasing like stuff only

@Andyswitch have you done this before?

 

[LadyGrace321]

@Kinkyswitch7847 this is the best.

 

[Andyswitch]

@Kinkyswitch7847 this is the best.

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U have a great taste in bondage

 

[LadyGrace321]

Thank you @Andyswitch . What about this one?

 

[LadyGrace321]

Although, I don't like the locks. That's going too far.

 

[Andyswitch]

Thank you @Andyswitch . What about this one?
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Nice but instead of lock I would like strap save time

 

[LadyGrace321]

Nice but instead of lock I would like strap save time

Agree. Need practice to know 100%