Emma0130

Kinky Newbie
  • Bisexual
  • Female
  • Submissive
Dec 4, 2024
2
8
3
Hello everyone, i wanted to tell you all a little bit about my journey with kinks and all.
A few years back i found the world of DDLG, at first i thought it was a little bit weird but i started to love it. I found amazing people with that!!! I discovered a new part of me that was ready to come out.
However, nowadays i never get on little space and i found a much darker side of me. To be fair i knew it was there already i just never truly explored it and the reality is that im very into everything about humiliation. At time im scared thinking i shouldn’t be like that, other times i just want to open my legs and do whatever anyone tells me to.
I find myself getting wet on the bus just from thinking about opening my legs for a random passenger or sucking a random dude on a party and offering to do anything else he would like… maybe i should just find a Dom to use and abuse me and give him all the power to not have the need to think for myself again.
The reality is that i can only think about that, give all control away, be used and abused, get humiliated in any possible way, be objectified even…

I went from a princess that loves cuddles and is all giggles to a horny desperate slut…

Im not sure if this is normal
But honestly i couldn’t care less at the time
Im way too horny
 

Playfullwolfy

Kink Talk Member
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  • Male
  • Dominant
Dec 16, 2022
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I think it is normal, as the experience with the BDSM/Kinky life extended, the deep you drive the more kinky items you love to explore. So, changing from a cuddling daughter to a desperate slut is quite a normal move :) .

I believe you will soon enjoy more extreme and kinky items. However it could have a negative impact as with the time you may loose interest on regular kinky items and started searching for more extreme kinks.
 

Merlin

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  • Dominant
Staff member
Jan 9, 2008
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Germany
You write it a bit as if one excludes the other, but in reality there us nothing speaking against getting the cuddles and the humiliation both in one relation.
Also keep in mind fantasy a d reality are not always the same. So explore step by step and try things slowly.
 

Gengis

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  • Male
  • Switch
Oct 30, 2024
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Im not sure if this is normal
"normal" is such subjective word.... what is normal for some people may not be for others.
You are in a site where no nobody is "normal"... Hope i dont hurt your feelins, people... !!! xD

For me... i dont like flashing to extrangers, they probably wont be looking for taht and more than probably wont like it.
But wont judge, most of us wont
 

LossingcontroleSub/Dom

Kink Talk Member
  • Bisexual
  • Female
  • Switch
Dec 10, 2024
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Hello everyone, i wanted to tell you all a little bit about my journey with kinks and all.
A few years back i found the world of DDLG, at first i thought it was a little bit weird but i started to love it. I found amazing people with that!!! I discovered a new part of me that was ready to come out.
However, nowadays i never get on little space and i found a much darker side of me. To be fair i knew it was there already i just never truly explored it and the reality is that im very into everything about humiliation. At time im scared thinking i shouldn’t be like that, other times i just want to open my legs and do whatever anyone tells me to.
I find myself getting wet on the bus just from thinking about opening my legs for a random passenger or sucking a random dude on a party and offering to do anything else he would like… maybe i should just find a Dom to use and abuse me and give him all the power to not have the need to think for myself again.
The reality is that i can only think about that, give all control away, be used and abused, get humiliated in any possible way, be objectified even…

I went from a princess that loves cuddles and is all giggles to a horny desperate slut…

Im not sure if this is normal
But honestly i couldn’t care less at the time
Im way too horny
There's nothing wrong with you , because if there is then there's something wrong with me.
Enjoy being you yummy
 

Sguattero

Kinky Newbie
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  • Male
  • Slave
Dec 8, 2024
29
7
3
Italy
I have been a Dom.
Sex sometimes Is like an addiction.
I had f subs that asked me a lot of tasks and then looked also to play with others.
No rules.. no true ownership.
If you think that a Dom can help you.. May be.. but only if your Need of ownership Is stronger than your Lust
 

Gengis

Senior Kink Talk Member
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  • Male
  • Switch
Oct 30, 2024
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Really? Just. Really? 👀
Reaper....
say more man. Allll you ever say is Hey.
why???
I whould say... he told you, right? he doesnt want to loose time. To be honest... i totally get it. Why whould he want to make an elaborate message for pay2play gurl or.. a bot... or... just be ignored?
You do itright for a certain ammount of times until you realized its just bulshit and you just loosing time and energy
So a plain, simple "HEY" should do. It is funny to watch from afar, tho :):):)