Good on you for helping her out and being open to it all. That’s huge for her whether you know it or not. And vetting people is even better. Yes lots of “doms” online claim the mentor role so that they can play with someone and have them do tasks and pic under the guise of calling it mentoring. This needs to be like a teacher student thing. Not like a play partners thing. I’m glad you’ve realized that and started cutting through all the garbage fakes. If you’re considering anyone from here I recommend checking their profile and their prior posts here to get a fell for who they are. Lots you’ll see are very much a “hey Kik me” or using titles and pet names that are not earned. Half assed tasks assignment etc. clearly red flags for a good mentor.
Some of the discussion is going to need to be you and her involved with the mentor and other may be specific to just her and the mentor. Mainly due to her lack of Exp and since you’re part of it you’ll need to be included. Are you planning to sub to her or let her domme others? Also disability kink things just depends on what type disability and it can usually be healthy safe worked around.
Good on you for helping her out and being open to it all. That’s huge for her whether you know it or not. And vetting people is even better. Yes lots of “doms” online claim the mentor role so that they can play with someone and have them do tasks and pic under the guise of calling it mentoring. This needs to be like a teacher student thing. Not like a play partners thing. I’m glad you’ve realized that and started cutting through all the garbage fakes. If you’re considering anyone from here I recommend checking their profile and their prior posts here to get a fell for who they are. Lots you’ll see are very much a “hey Kik me” or using titles and pet names that are not earned. Half assed tasks assignment etc. clearly red flags for a good mentor.
Some of the discussion is going to need to be you and her involved with the mentor and other may be specific to just her and the mentor. Mainly due to her lack of Exp and since you’re part of it you’ll need to be included. Are you planning to sub to her or let her domme others? Also disability kink things just depends on what type disability and it can usually be healthy safe worked around.
Thanks for your remarks, you have just about summed it up to a point. We are not looking to involve others unless it turns out someone becomes a good friend and is localish to us, then who knows , one step at a time. But she is also looking for kinky friends just to be friends and swap ideas etc. she has got so much crap from people on line that is why I'm sort of vetting People and I do check them out on here and elsewhere if I can find them. the disability thing is not a link for or fetish for disability, it is because I am slightly disabled,not in a major way but it does effect my life so we was just looking to see how others handle things.
