F 21 Just got some new toys!!

[sweetbea]

Hey there! I just got in some pretty exciting toys and I’m anxious to try them. I have a plan that I think will be fun, but was wondering if others might have better uses for these items. Take a look if you’d like and let me know if you think I can do better

New Items:

• Clit clamp
• Wax candles (body safe)
• Vibrating kegel (wristband controlled)
• Rope
• Ball gag
• Panties with built in ‘pleasure beads’

Old items:

• pussy pump
• Small dildo
• Large dildo
• Bullet vibe

Plan:
Shower, put clamp on as I put myself into a frog tie. Ball gag. Once tied, take clamp off to get blood flow back and in that time see what the candles can do after that insert kegel but don’t turn it on, clamp again for another 5 mins. Then, turn on kegel, and I imagine I’ll be a bit incoherent so freestyle from there.

Open for tweaks to the plan as well as other plans I can use on a later date!

• Likes: praise, orgasm control/denial, joi, spanking (not generally feasible b/c roommate), edging, bondage, cockwarming, light degradation (nothing too incredibly mean spirited, but name calling is fine!).
• Limits: pictures, piss, scat, blood/knifeplay, humiliation, daddy/mommy, master/slave, nipple play, body writing, watersports, public stuff, vomit, clothespins, anal
• Won’t go on kik or outside apps

Thanks for reading!

 

[subzzzero]

I’ll add more when I can but not knowing your prior wax experience. Test drip on your inner wrist like they used to show testing baby bottle milk. Even bodysafe wax candles still get hot so use the non kink session time to just demo the candle. See what the comfortable drip height is so you know for when the play time comes. If it’s too hot keep pulling back from the target surface wax cools as it’s dripping so you can use the distance to control temperature. It will also splash and stick to everything. Pre treat skin with light rub of aloe gel or similar will allow easier wax removal as well. I typically like to carve it off using a knife on my subs but again use caution and practice. If not then a simple wash cloth or just fingernails will do. If you’re doing it on carpet or bed lay down a cheap sheet or blanket you don’t mind messing up for easier cleanup.

 

[sweetbea]

I’ll add more when I can but not knowing your prior wax experience. Test drip on your inner wrist like they used to show testing baby bottle milk. Even bodysafe wax candles still get hot so use the non kink session time to just demo the candle. See what the comfortable drip height is so you know for when the play time comes. If it’s too hot keep pulling back from the target surface wax cools as it’s dripping so you can use the distance to control temperature. It will also splash and stick to everything. Pre treat skin with light rub of aloe gel or similar will allow easier wax removal as well. I typically like to carve it off using a knife on my subs but again use caution and practice. If not then a simple wash cloth or just fingernails will do. If you’re doing it on carpet or bed lay down a cheap sheet or blanket you don’t mind messing up for easier cleanup.

Thank you so much!! Wanted to report back and let you know that this advice was very helpful as this was my first time with wax and the box instructions were a little vague lol, after trying this and using the wax safely it was a very very enjoyable experience. Deliciously painful that I will absolutely be doing again

On the subject of the rest of the plan, for anyone who’s interested, it went swimmingly! Although I riffed a bit at the start, as I needed to run yesterday so I inserted the kegel for my run, changing the pattern each time I saw another person. Everything else was pretty much the same but something did surprise me about the ball gag- it has holes for easier breathing which my saliva dripped through which was honestly hotter than I thought it would be. I followed online instructions for the clamp but it didn’t hurt as nicely as the wax did, but the rope kept me still. Was extremely satisfying after denying myself since ordering the items (2 1/2 weeks) still open to suggestions if anyone has them.

 

[subzzzero]

Thank you so much!! Wanted to report back and let you know that this advice was very helpful as this was my first time with wax and the box instructions were a little vague lol, after trying this and using the wax safely it was a very very enjoyable experience. Deliciously painful that I will absolutely be doing again

On the subject of the rest of the plan, for anyone who’s interested, it went swimmingly! Although I riffed a bit at the start, as I needed to run yesterday so I inserted the kegel for my run, changing the pattern each time I saw another person. Everything else was pretty much the same but something did surprise me about the ball gag- it has holes for easier breathing which my saliva dripped through which was honestly hotter than I thought it would be. I followed online instructions for the clamp but it didn’t hurt as nicely as the wax did, but the rope kept me still. Was extremely satisfying after denying myself since ordering the items (2 1/2 weeks) still open to suggestions if anyone has them.

Nicely done. I’m glad it all was a positive first experience for you. I’ll have to cook up some creative evil and donate to this post soon.