F/Punishment request for female

[Punpkin]

Hello everyone! I'm trying to be a better sub and since my Dom is unavailable for a while I was told I can make a post asking for various painful/humiliating tasks I can do in my room or hidden pain I can keep under my clothes while with my family, so I humbly request your suggestions!

I have: rope, 9" dildo, various household objects: bobby pins, hair/elastic bands, thumb tacks, etc..

Likes: pain (especially in the genital area), humiliation, pet play, restraints & restrictions

Dislikes: edging, orgasm torture, time wasting

Limits: videos, pictures, audios, family, social suicide, feet, scat, permanent damage, skin piercing, anal

All the best and stay safe!

EDIT: felt that this needed an update- I'm mainly looking for painful things I could do secretly/hidden under my clothes (e.g. tack underwear for X amount of time - basic task I know) or tasks that would make me feel humiliated (e.g. eat from a bowl, on the floor like a kitten, spit on myself, etc.. - again i know those are rather basic but that's why I am requesting suggestions) Other suggestions are welcomed but be aware that I may not be capable of going all the way.

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Hey sounds like someone is going a bit isolation crazy?

Here is something simple you could try, first make up one these tack pads

Show off home made stuff

I'm just curious on what people have made or modified themselves. What toy or tool have you made and a brief how you made it.

www.kinktalk.com

Now for the duration of the day, or as long as you can stand it do the following.
Begin with the tack pad in one bra cup, this should start as early as possible in the day, preferably as you get dressed.

• From then on any time you hear someone mention a trigger word, in this case any day of the week, you have to swap the pad to either the other bra cup or your panties.
• You are to do this swap as quickly as possible this means without leaving the room you are in if that is possible or by moving as little as you can. Basically the idea is don't just dash to the bathroom each time.
• Once you make the swap you get a 30 minute moratorium where the trigger words don't count.
• The first two swaps must be to different places, i.e. if the first swap is from left to right boob, the next must be to panties. Once all three places have been used you can make future swaps to whichever place you like.
• Trigger words could be spoken by someone in the house, on TV or radio or in a movie or video.
• Pad can be positioned anyway you like in the bra cups but once placed must not be moved until you get the next trigger, in panties must always be positioned in the crotch.

Any questions just ask. If you decide to do this it would also be nice if you could report progress during the day here in the thread to help keep everyone amused.

 

[Punpkin]

Hey sounds like someone is going a bit isolation crazy?

Here is something simple you could try, first make up one these tack pads

Show off home made stuff

I'm just curious on what people have made or modified themselves. What toy or tool have you made and a brief how you made it.

www.kinktalk.com

Now for the duration of the day, or as long as you can stand it do the following.
Begin with the tack pad in one bra cup, this should start as early as possible in the day, preferably as you get dressed.

• From then on any time you hear someone mention a trigger word, in this case any day of the week, you have to swap the pad to either the other bra cup or your panties.
• You are to do this swap as quickly as possible this means without leaving the room you are in if that is possible or by moving as little as you can. Basically the idea is don't just dash to the bathroom each time.
• Once you make the swap you get a 30 minute moratorium where the trigger words don't count.
• The first two swaps must be to different places, i.e. if the first swap is from left to right boob, the next must be to panties. Once all three places have been used you can make future swaps to whichever place you like.
• Trigger words could be spoken by someone in the house, on TV or radio or in a movie or video.
• Pad can be positioned anyway you like in the bra cups but once placed must not be moved until you get the next trigger, in panties must always be positioned in the crotch.

Any questions just ask. If you decide to do this it would also be nice if you could report progress during the day here in the thread to help keep everyone amused.

Hi, thank you so much for your suggestion! I have started this task about 2 hours ago and sadly no trigger words have been heard nor have I spoken to anyone in a while. I'm mostly home alone or with my sibling (who spends most of their time inside their room). I resorted to move the pax every 30 minutes myself after about an hour but it gets a little boring.

I do love tack pads since I normally make a whole bra and panties set for at least half an hour. Having just one on one of my boobs have been a little annoying since I like symmetry and not having it really bugs me.

Any more suggestions are welcomed.

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Hi, thank you so much for your suggestion! I have started this task about 2 hours ago and sadly no trigger words have been heard nor have I spoken to anyone in a while. I'm mostly home alone or with my sibling (who spends most of their time inside their room). I resorted to move the pax every 30 minutes myself after about an hour but it gets a little boring.

I do love tack pads since I normally make a whole bra and panties set for at least half an hour. Having just one on one of my boobs have been a little annoying since I like symmetry and not having it really bugs me.

Any more suggestions are welcomed.

Ah ok not ideal, I presumed from the tone of your original post that you were in a fairly busy home situation.
This kind of trigger word task only really works when there are several people around, I've used it previously for subs at work etc.

How about trying this instead?

Make up tack pads for both bra cups and panties then whenever ready you can start the treasure hunt.

Before commencing the hunt put in your tack pads and dress appropriately.
Your task is to find the following items,

1. A green metal item.
2. A smooth stone.
3. A leaf from a tree
4. Half a cup of dirt
5. 3 different screws or bolts
6. A hard boiled egg (must be boiled when needed, not in advance)
7. A box large enough to hold all your treasure but small enough to carry easily.
8. A block of wood
9. Something made of red plastic but can't be taken from the kitchen or bathroom
10. On a sheet of paper write the alphabet by holding a pen in your mouth. Letters must all be legible.

All items must be collected IN ORDER, no skipping ahead. If you get stuck on any item you can elect to take a 10 minute corner time to skip it or move it to the end of the list. Moving it to the end of list means you can keep thinking while you search out the other items but it must eventually be found or you fail the hunt. Skipped items count as found so long as you served the corner time during the hunt.

Tack pads can only be removed once the hunt is completed or you admit a fail.
A failed hunt means you will have to do it over again with a new set of treasure to hunt out as well as 2 additional items to find.

 

[Punpkin]

Ah ok not ideal, I presumed from the tone of your original post that you were in a fairly busy home situation.
This kind of trigger word task only really works when there are several people around, I've used it previously for subs at work etc.

How about trying this instead?

Make up tack pads for both bra cups and panties then whenever ready you can start the treasure hunt.

Before commencing the hunt put in your tack pads and dress appropriately.
Your task is to find the following items,

1. A green metal item.
2. A smooth stone.
3. A leaf from a tree
4. Half a cup of dirt
5. 3 different screws or bolts
6. A hard boiled egg (must be boiled when needed, not in advance)
7. A box large enough to hold all your treasure but small enough to carry easily.
8. A block of wood
9. Something made of red plastic but can't be taken from the kitchen or bathroom
10. On a sheet of paper write the alphabet by holding a pen in your mouth. Letters must all be legible.

All items must be collected IN ORDER, no skipping ahead. If you get stuck on any item you can elect to take a 10 minute corner time to skip it or move it to the end of the list. Moving it to the end of list means you can keep thinking while you search out the other items but it must eventually be found or you fail the hunt. Skipped items count as found so long as you served the corner time during the hunt.

Tack pads can only be removed once the hunt is completed or you admit a fail.
A failed hunt means you will have to do it over again with a new set of treasure to hunt out as well as 2 additional items to find.

Well that's interesting while it is a bit time consuming, and personally I don't like wasting time too much it seems fun, I'll probably have time to do it tomorrow.

 

[Punpkin]

hey owned toy whore
if you are ok having tacks inside your holes then do this.
I want you to fill your pussy with tacks itself. while this is painful to keep on, the addition is to push your dildo in the pussy as well.

I know this task may very well break some of your limits so I ask you to it if you are sure it will be key to have such pain for the next 6 hours.

if in the case you are scared to push the dildo in your pussy you can have it In your ass for the whole day.

Okay first of all my post mentions my limits (they are called limits because it's something I'm not willing to do) those including skin piercing, permanent damage and anal which are things you have completely ignored with your reply.

Second of all just because people do stuff like that in porn that doesn't mean it's safe. The kind of infections you could have after this is just the cherry on top that the doctor's wanna deal with during this period of time.

Thirdly "Hey owned toy whore" is not the way to start a conversation with anyone just because my preference is more submissive than dominant at the end of the day we don't know each other, we aren't friends and you have no right to address to a stranger in such a manner just because it's a kinky website.

The addition of "ifs" and mentioning that you're aware of "might" go over some of my limits may have you granted a couple good points but that doesn't mean your not still below the bar.

You are simply one of many toxic Doms that don't think before typing and just message whatever comes to mind first. Your duty as a Dom is to understand the subs likes, dislikes, limits and their needs just as a sub is meant to provide the Dom with whatever it is they need: affection, obeying their rules or whatever. I'm posting this message not only for you but for all the others that give Doms and BDSM a bad name.

 

[subzzzero]

ok, I accept the third point,
and as for everything else I already knew you won't do the task ( I just wanted to see how much you are fixed on limits. it's not just to you I have met more than few subs who are doing things that are in their limits)
still, I apologize for giving you this

as for the requested punishment, I have this for you
I want you to wear your tack bra on your ass. this way it will keep you in pain every time you walk or sit.
I am giving you this for min. of 4 to 6 hours but if you want constant pain you can do as long as you want.
the longer you go the more painful it will be

"I already knew you won't do the task ( I just wanted to see how much you are fixed on limits. it's not just to you I have met more than few subs who are doing things that are in their limits)"

Im calling bullshit. You just didnt respect the limits listed. end of story. No excuses. You only admit into it now because you were called out on it all. Dont back peddle now. You literally tasked her to stuff tacks into her pussy and fuck it with a toy. Are you serious? Are you gonna pay her med bills when some of them are stuck inside and cant be removed without a trip to the Dr.? small unlanyarded items should never go in the pussy especially not fucked inside with all that soft tissue. Infections and soft tissue tears are a huge issue. But as youve shown with your lack of respect and knowledge you clearly dont know any better. Please go find an experienced mentor dom and don't be practicing anything kink related. you are a danger to anyone you task with after seeing this post. Limits are to always be respected unless given permission on a soft limit by the sub (which usually only comes with long term dynamics.) You need to learn the difference between real life and porn as well.

 

[subzzzero]

Wow he got called out and then pulled the dirty delete. That's all the red flag you need right there.

@Punpkin Thank you for standing up and calling that guy out. Hopefully he learned his lesson and wont be so disrespectful in the future.

Also since I failed to contribute to your post with any actual task ideas here is a small general suggestion if youre looking for hidden under clothes pain. Elastic bands around each breast, and or each inner thigh. On a periodic schedule you can pull and snap each band. for example every 15 minutes (set number) of snaps of each. And since you like genital pain. each time you use the bathroom or have pants off for any other reason you can use a loose rubber band for 5 snaps to the super sensitive area. As an alternative the area between the ass and pussy is quite tender as well for snapping. happy kinking to you.

 

[MissKubo]

You could secure your dildo inside yourself with a crotchrope (over panties or without, up to you) or even tie yourself a rope harness and see if you dare leave your room with them under your clothes?

Extra points for doing any household chores while wearing it under your clothes (dishes, dusting, vacuuming, etc. Mow the lawn if you're confident enough that you have it sufficiently hidden?)

(Only saying because my husband's been wanting me to mow the lawn with some "hidden" kinks all weekend but we have a child and we're in lockdown so...)

 

[master deadhunter]

Wow he got called out and then pulled the dirty delete. That's all the red flag you need right there.

@Punpkin Thank you for standing up and calling that guy out. Hopefully he learned his lesson and wont be so disrespectful in the future.

Also since I failed to contribute to your post with any actual task ideas here is a small general suggestion if youre looking for hidden under clothes pain. Elastic bands around each breast, and or each inner thigh. On a periodic schedule you can pull and snap each band. for example every 15 minutes (set number) of snaps of each. And since you like genital pain. each time you use the bathroom or have pants off for any other reason you can use a loose rubber band for 5 snaps to the super sensitive area. As an alternative the area between the ass and pussy is quite tender as well for snapping. happy kinking to you.

look I deleted cause I was wrong. and I accepted that.
and for you, I have the only answer is this" I was wrong on @Punpkin post, not on your post. so just shut up. nobody asks you to open your dirty trash hole."
also, don't drag this and garbage her post. (this time I request you this)

 

[Punpkin]

Wow he got called out and then pulled the dirty delete. That's all the red flag you need right there.

@Punpkin Thank you for standing up and calling that guy out. Hopefully he learned his lesson and wont be so disrespectful in the future.

Also since I failed to contribute to your post with any actual task ideas here is a small general suggestion if youre looking for hidden under clothes pain. Elastic bands around each breast, and or each inner thigh. On a periodic schedule you can pull and snap each band. for example every 15 minutes (set number) of snaps of each. And since you like genital pain. each time you use the bathroom or have pants off for any other reason you can use a loose rubber band for 5 snaps to the super sensitive area. As an alternative the area between the ass and pussy is quite tender as well for snapping. happy kinking to you.

Oh thank you for your message. When I reported it I wasn't sure if I was just too sensitive and overreacting since I am a bit more of a sensitive person than other or if I was in the right to do so.

I'm glad to see that I can feel safe here and that others got my back!

 

[subzzzero]

Oh thank you for your message. When I reported it I wasn't sure if I was just too sensitive and overreacting since I am a bit more of a sensitive person than other or if I was in the right to do so.

I'm glad to see that I can feel safe here and that others got my back!

Yes there are lots of good people here. Most times if you look over someone's profile and their prior posts you can get a feel for what they are really about. Just click on their profile name then theres a tab for all their prior post history. Seems lots of the ones who are the issue dont think that we can all see what theyve said in the past. Also quoting someone in a reply helps others see whats up when one might have deleted prior posts.