Borrow some big amount of cash from her then pay back online for her content like a rich fan to attract her.
I am joking, don't do it! Unless you know better if she tastes a prank
The whole thing sounds weird. Not the good kinda weird that kinks and fetishes can be either but much more along the lines of aggrivated stalking which is never a game.
All you can do is message a proposal of arrangement and ask it be considered or counter offered. That may open an honest negotiation or chat at least.
Even within the confines of a kink/fetish community lines have to be drawn and one must never presume upon another. At the end of the day this is about expression, exploration, education, and the sharing of common or uncommon experiences.
Try to keep it within that framework. Otherwise this site could end up buried alongside craigslist personals.