Girlfriend’s gape

Coyote1997

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Me (26M) and my girlfriend (24 F) have been dating for a year and a half. She has been with 6 other people before me (so she says). She has a nice, meaty pussy, but she always has a resting gape. All the time her hole is always wide open (if he lips are separated). She says she’s never been fisted and isn’t kinky enough to do stretching on her own.. my question is- why does she have a gape? Is it likely from large objects? Maybe DVP? She’s 100 lbs and never had a kid or anything. It doesn’t come from her getting turned on. It’s a pretty significant sized gape.
 
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It’s just anatomy and all people are different. Is it typically the whole way in loose. Or just the opening? How often does she had sex or use toys. Was she always that size even when just starting out with sexual stuff? Kegals may help tighten the muscles but the loose tissue prob not


But what’s the issue other than maybe you don’t like the looks of it ?
 

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Likely position of her vaginal canal uterus etc. does it feel shallower by chance ?
 

Coyote1997

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Likely position of her vaginal canal uterus etc. does it feel shallower by chance ?
Not necessarily shallow. I just wonder if maybe she was using large objects before me. It’s pretty darn loose, but I don’t mind because I’m bigger.
 

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Typically if not stretched frequently and excessively it will all tighten back up. Birth it will even go back right.
The gapes you see in porn are constant hard use.
With age it has a better chance staying open loose but she’s not there by any means
 

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I'd rather call that a "cute" gape, nothing to worry about.
Gapes usually don't occur and persist after inserting large objects or DVP. So if she doesn't stretch on her own and if you don't play with her that often, it could be natural/genetic.
Why don't you just ask her whether she used large objects before? Why would she lie on that?
Hope she allowed you to post her pic in your profile btw?
 

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I had a very short relationship with a woman who was a bit open and loose. I have a rather tiny penis and was lost inside her. My erection was only maintained by mental lust but very little physical friction. To make the situation worse for my chances of pleasuring her at all she wasnt really into foreplay. ( I had one other relationship with a woman who had very little interest in foreplay - it didnt last long either.)
 

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