How did you find out about your desires?

[Thygh]

Having fantasies is entirely normal, experts agree. "People fantasize because it is a healthy part of the human experience,"

How did you find out about your desires?

 

[Jacksparrow]

Are you slave or master

 

[subzzzero]

Are you slave or master

Stop with the selfish one liners here. You aren’t even respecting what others have posted. You push your way in to threads seeking mistresses and ask if they want a master. Now this post is asking a specific question and yet again you’re making it about what you want.

 

[Asseather79]

Having fantasies is entirely normal, experts agree. "People fantasize because it is a healthy part of the human experience,"

How did you find out about your desires?

When I was a teenager, I seen a woman poop herself, I was hooked. One night while licking her pussy, I turned her over and licked her asshole, working my tongue in until I my lips locked on her asshole.

 

[pop impossible]

i would say, like most people, learning about any particular kink online via mediums like forums, videos, pictures, text, etc. and then trying it out irl to see if its something I like or not.

I also think having a partner who provides a stable and safe environment for you to explore your kinks is a good way to experiment around and see what works and what does not.

 

[smallchangexxx23]

I was always aware that I have a tiny penis ( especially when it is flaccid) . I have never compared well to other guys my age, older or even younger as far as unerect size goes. of course fully erect I havent had anywhere near the in the flesh comparisons to go by. However I know that fully erect a tad less than 4" long and only a tad more in 4" girth is generally well below average.
I have suffered an untold number of embarrassments, disappointments and humiliations in regards to my tiny size ( both flaccid and erect) These experiences were never enjoyable when they happened but somewhere in my 20's I started to be aroused by some of them after the fact. I found this to be very weird and put it down to some psychological compensatory mechanism . It gradually became more prevalent and even past horrors became arousing in retrospect. I still thought it was weird and I was some kind of complete oddball and did not in anyway seek out humiliation. However in my early thirties after some girl I was dating confessed to cheating on me because my penis was way too small to please her I researched heavily into all things relating to penis size. I was vainly trying to prove I wasnt that much smaller than most post pubescent males but discovered two things 1) I am definitely in a very low percentile flaccid and not much better erect. 2) I dicovered there was such a thing as a Small Penis Humilation fetish ( it doesnt require you to be actually small even but I definitely am tiny) This is what really set me on the fetish path but I kept it an utter secret from anyone I knew.
Lots of things happened in relation to my sph kicks but they were never really sought out but just occured. I finally was emboldened enough to confess it to a woman I was in a relationship with she didnt get the fetish part really but did confess I was by far the smallest guy she had ever been with. Sometime after that I actually confessed it to another woman whom I had known for about a decade after she drunkenly started talking about sexual things ( not with the aim of getting off with me but more of a confessional thing) This lured me into confiding with her about my biggest little sex secrets - including a host of pre sph humiliatons. We were both definitely embarrassed when we soberly saw each other soon after. However she and I had a tell all sex confessional part of our 'just friends' relationship and trusted each other to divulge anything to anyone else about our chats and correspondence in that vein.
She at first also didnt get my sph thing but she came around to it. She didnt directly indulge it but knew that I giot off on just talikng to her about my size and sph related things. This was when i knew absolutely that I had a very powerful fetish.

 

[Ljn89]

When I was younger I found myself wanting to do things to my partner that I thought was scary. Such as getting rough with them or sliding my hands around their throat while we were having sex. I always felt terrible that I wanted to do these things to them. It wasn't until a few years later that I understood that there were others who wanted the same things as me and while not everyone would enjoy it that what I was thinking about was not bad or something to be ashamed of as long as the other person was willing and wanted the same things.

 

[MissKubo]

I found an old movie one night while channel surfing. I later found out it was called Starlet and it was a low budget porno about making low budget pornos but the scene I caught had a naked woman locked in a pillory getting flogged and then the director yelled cut and left her locked there alone on set because he wasn't happy with her performance.

And I was a lifelong subbie with an exhibitionistic streak ever since