How do you know if something is a kink/fetish?

[Vampiric_Lust]

Hi I just wanted to know how do you know if something you like that is sexual or involves kink in some way is a fetish/kink?
For example I like it if men speak foreign languages, wear a mask, call me degrading names (slut, daddy's slut due to being into ddlg) and then comfort me and treat me like their babygirl/princess)
Not sure what the name of the type of kink or fetish I like would be called.

 

[subzzzero]

kink is something non vanilla that you enjoy. fetish refers to something that one needs to climax like it goes from just "i enjoy it..... to its a necessity"

that being said pretty much anything can be a kink or fetish to anyone. its all about you and what you enjoy. dont waste too much time on identity of kink so much as get what you want and enjoy.

basically what you described above is an example of potential abduction play and degradation. you also are into ddlg as you stated there. that itself is a widely known kink/fetish.