How to stand a forbidden orgasm?

[Mekis]

Hi, I’m pretty new here and have just little experience of BDSM. But I know for sure I’m a sub.

My husband is not into it, so I have to play with myself all alone. I don’t masturbate when he is at home but he is travelling a lot and when he is away o do a lot.

Within the BDSM world a master sometimes forbid a sub to orgasm. I am “forbidden” to orgasm for weeks and weeks sometime. I do t do it when husband at home.

How do you subs stand being without an orgasm? Tips and tricks?

 

[Jacksparrow]

Can we talk on snap chat or kik

 

[Mekis]

No I prefer to talk here

 

[Doctor Pervert]

No I prefer to talk here

This is such a good discussion topic, I'm glad you want to keep it going on here where all can see.
All too often people seem to want to try and move the discussion off the board like this;

Can we talk on snap chat or kik

The original post is clearly inviting discussion and not asking for private chats and such should be respected and treated that way.

 

[MissKubo]

It's so, SO difficult, especially when I'm forced to have repeated edges - I get so frustrated I could (and sometimes do) sob...

Going "weeks and weeks" when you're new to it can be pretty hard going though... I got started by being denied by my husband for a few days, then for a week, then built up from there, and I still go insane and become an emotional mess if I'm denied for too long

It really helps if I know that I have an endpoint in mind, something that I can look forward to and earn. Beyond that it's just practice and learning to enjoy the feeling of being so aroused, all the time, everywhere... It's fun carrying a sexy little secret around with me that only a couple of people know about. You can get some short term relief giving your pussy a couple of slaps... But I also quite like the hot sting so sometimes it doesn't help as much as I hope it will

 

[Mekis]

Having an endpoint is a good idea, thanks! But it does not always work. My husband will travel week x and then that changes and he stays at home. So frustrating

 

[Naughty nova]

If it's to the point that it just feels cruel then say something. Edging is fine but if there doesn't seem. To be a good bang out of it and your just continually frustrated is it truly worth the wait. New here also and still learning myself. So take my input for what it is. My daddy doesn't deny me my cummies for very long but I am very horny baby.

 

[Hazel139]

Wow, weeks? That's a lot... I can only do it for two or three days... I go very horny and crazy to orgasm

 

[Rubbersub]

Wow, weeks? That's a lot... I can only do it for two or three days... I go very horny and crazy to orgasm

Same here

 

[Naughty nova]

Wow, weeks? That's a lot... I can only do it for two or three days... I go very horny and crazy to orgasm

Agree weeks seems excessive to me and cruel. But that's me

 

[Juleonie]

That’s too excessive for me…
7 days is long enough

 

[bookishkitten]

If I’m understanding correctly, this is something you have set for yourself as you said you play alone.

I’m confused about why you feel you can’t cum when your hubs is not traveling. You could slowly include him in the play and see how he feels.

But I agree with some of the other comments. Weeks seems a bit excessive for orgasm denial and borders on cruel. In this case you are punishing yourself in a way. Is that your goal?

 

[teenslaveboy1]

I go so long when we make out I orgasm without touching anything but lips. It’s awesome