How to tell gf

[Jes08924]

Thanks yall

 

[Switchkinkster]

I wouldn’t hint as you may never be able to portray your desires. I would talk with her and be honest and then ask her her thoughts concerns or fears with it. You could bring it up by a conversation discussing fantasies and have her go first then tell her yours and go from there.

 

[Dave47630]

It really boils down to how much the two of you value your current relationship and value its future. Do you value this new tran experience higher than what you have now with your girlfriend? More than you value your future with her? Is it worth the possibility of loosing this wonderful relationship you have now? Ask yourself, because you may loose something very valuable.

If you do think that having this tran experience has a higher value than your girlfriend experience also ask if she values your relationship. You are not the only one loosing should you break up.

Think, or ask others, about ways to broach the topic only after you are pleased with the answers to the above.

 

[subzzzero]

Clothes on sober adult discussion. Also don’t allow your want for the situation to cloud your judgment at making sure she’s in agreement and ok with it all. Also establish all the boundaries to who can do what with who.