I have a question for the married men...
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Is this about knowledge or permission?
With a partner of any gender in mind.
Nilla Answer: At last! I have wanted you to do something like this for ages, now please keep surprising me. If I am with you will you show and do even more in public?
D/s Answer: This might be humiliation, provocation of punishment, arousing and teasing, etc. It depends upon our roles, contract and checklist. Situations like this should (however generically) be worked out before serious play. Then permission and knowledge are different.
Personally if it is nilla it would be good, and D/s it should be good for me, Then everyone is different.
Is this a real life or theoretical question?
With a partner of any gender in mind.
Nilla Answer: At last! I have wanted you to do something like this for ages, now please keep surprising me. If I am with you will you show and do even more in public?
D/s Answer: This might be humiliation, provocation of punishment, arousing and teasing, etc. It depends upon our roles, contract and checklist. Situations like this should (however generically) be worked out before serious play. Then permission and knowledge are different.
Personally if it is nilla it would be good, and D/s it should be good for me, Then everyone is different.
Is this a real life or theoretical question?
This response will vary by relationship. On one hand the option is they’re ok with it. Or the other is they feel you have been sneaking it around vs just talking about it before doing it. It could go either way.
Fantasy porn land answer on here will be oh yes it’s awesome etc etc. but the real truth is there are plenty of guys who don’t want to share.
Yes many Dominants do not want to share. Also many submissives do not want to be shared. However sharing at different levels in different ways, works for a lot of people and that's why we have swinger clubs.
The experience will be very different if you are the one doing the telling or being told about this. It may be a very good or very bad thing, but it sounds like it is something that you obviously need to work through sooner not later.
I only discovered this aspect of a relationship when I used to regularly work away from home, and came back to find a framed nude drawing of my spouse on the wall, who had signed up to be a life model and then started modelling privately for people in the class. It was just modelling (I think, and any ambiguity actually became a positive), and it worked really well for both of us.
The experience will be very different if you are the one doing the telling or being told about this. It may be a very good or very bad thing, but it sounds like it is something that you obviously need to work through sooner not later.
I only discovered this aspect of a relationship when I used to regularly work away from home, and came back to find a framed nude drawing of my spouse on the wall, who had signed up to be a life model and then started modelling privately for people in the class. It was just modelling (I think, and any ambiguity actually became a positive), and it worked really well for both of us.
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I'd call her my sexy tart and ask her to show me some of her pictures and comments
Then i'd ask if she wanted me to do her a tribute to them or just cum on her actual tits.
I'm still not sure I'd dare to show her content I'd posted of myself...
Depends how kinky she got with her own pics I guess
Then i'd ask if she wanted me to do her a tribute to them or just cum on her actual tits.
I'm still not sure I'd dare to show her content I'd posted of myself...
Depends how kinky she got with her own pics I guess
First I'd check with her that she was doing it of her own free will then if she was I'd be fully supportive of her enjoying herself.
Update: I spoke to my husband and he is fine with me posting and chatting.
Since somebody resurrected this thread, here's my 2 cent.
If my partner would confess posting lewd images online, I would be shocked. Nevertheless I would probably be open for online play together. According to the bdsm test I am 97% submissive and 87% degradee... so it might be a good opportunity to further dig into humiliation.
