I think I have a sex addiction

[Pretty&Plumpp]

Let me start off by saying that I’m not ashamed of it. And unfortunately, I don’t get to act on it.
Im a married mom, and while I love my husband, I’ve been having some dilemmas sexually. I feel unfulfilled, and I haven’t told my husband, but I’ve been having a lot of different fantasies lately involving multiple men, and the urge to act on them is becoming a battle. I also live in a predominantly white area, with a fetish for BWC. I don’t want my feelings to become a problem, but I’ve tempted myself with Reddit and now I really just can’t stop thinking about being fucked one good time but a group of sexy white men. I feel like I’m going crazy. Lol

 

[Hackett21]

Have you talked to your husband about this, many couple find alot of fun in doing such activities together. He may like if for all we know

 

[Dave47630]

I suspect you have a good reason that you have not told your husband. Weigh your love of your husband, your marriage, and your children if you have them, against your desire to be "fucked one good time".

Don't fool yourself that it won't likely be one time. It may take several attempts doing this until you have that one good time. Then after you have that one good time won't you want to relive it again and again?

Recognize that not all fantasies ought to become reality. Many have a rape fantasy, but they would not want to be raped. Many have war fantasies, but no one who has served in a war would want to go into battle again. See if you can keep this gang bang image as fantasy. It may help to think how someone would render you and the gang as an animated cartoon. Think "Gotta catch 'em all".

If you do value your family seek professional help. A counselor might work wonders setting your mind at ease.

 

[shelli_k18]

Let me start off by saying that I’m not ashamed of it. And unfortunately, I don’t get to act on it.
Im a married mom, and while I love my husband, I’ve been having some dilemmas sexually. I feel unfulfilled, and I haven’t told my husband, but I’ve been having a lot of different fantasies lately involving multiple men, and the urge to act on them is becoming a battle. I also live in a predominantly white area, with a fetish for BWC. I don’t want my feelings to become a problem, but I’ve tempted myself with Reddit and now I really just can’t stop thinking about being fucked one good time but a group of sexy white men. I feel like I’m going crazy. Lol

It's a slippery slope that I must admit I've helped my neighbor chose, started with some hidden flirting one halloween, to me humiliating her and her admitting her husbands shortcummings while she enjoyed my somewhat larger tool (I'm no monster, he was seriously lacking). Last time I heard from her, her count was above 6. mine with guys was above 6 before I turned 19, and only 3 with women when I cheated on my wife with her.. though my wife knew who she was marrying and that isn't what broke us.. I do know he moved out before her count was much more than just me.

 

[andrei]

I simply watch the craziest and most extreme porn I can find and my wife knows that I do and have my own tastes. I don't need new experiences so both are being happy together. She doesn't like my taste but she's ok with my masturbation. Just an idea of a happy family. So we never cheated each other (exception: she didn't seem to care what I do online and we don't chat about what each of us do).

 

[StormyDungeons]

Let me start off by saying that I’m not ashamed of it. And unfortunately, I don’t get to act on it.
Im a married mom, and while I love my husband, I’ve been having some dilemmas sexually. I feel unfulfilled, and I haven’t told my husband, but I’ve been having a lot of different fantasies lately involving multiple men, and the urge to act on them is becoming a battle. I also live in a predominantly white area, with a fetish for BWC. I don’t want my feelings to become a problem, but I’ve tempted myself with Reddit and now I really just can’t stop thinking about being fucked one good time but a group of sexy white men. I feel like I’m going crazy. Lol

Got a few suggestions that begin with a Latin term used in legal venues = wadiering.

Wadiering is a form in INQUISITIVE INVESTIGATION IN ORDER THAT A CONSENSUS BE DETERMINED.

In your case this could take several forms but discretely all = FINDING OUT WHAT KIND OF PORN HE'S WATCHING.

He may already be watching your fantasy. It happens.

This means he may be praying to God that YOU come around to this. That happens to = its a guy thing.

After youve done that legwork you have phase 2 = introduction.

This means YOU BEGIN WATCHING THIS PORN AND ALTHOUGH YOU DONT ADVERTISE THIS, YOU DONT EXACTLY HIDE IT EITHER.

Things like cuckholding are all the rage today so if you begin developing a femdom side, more than likely hes going to get onboard.

Trust me.

I suggest really watching ladyfyre and mistress t femdom clips. Both have tons of free content online. You may also plant some of it on his pc and/or fone. Both these gals are sublime and you will learn alot.

Phase 3 is contact 2 amatuer/pro gals who made their life fantasies into a paid job =

Naughty Alysha (Morgan) - Tampa Fla

Syren de Mer

Both are kink swingers belonging to official groups and both managed to get their husbands onboard. These can be a positive advice and support and maybe even helpful resources for you.

Phase 4 = find ways to fantasy exchange = create events that exercise his fantasies on the grounds you have place to also exercise yours.

Of course this could go into some dark and stormy dungeons - just sayin. But guys love this stuff. You might get him hooked up with an Atlanta gal called creampie cathy.

She does guys for free on her videos. Its actually hot.

In the end you may end up in an actual swing relationship. That can be a good thing.

Swingers tend to have LONG AND HAPPY MARRIAGES BECAUSE THEY COMMUNICATE, SHARE EVERYTHING, AND ARE NOT HIDING SECRETS OR DOING THINGS BEHIND EACH OTHERS BACKS.

I have known a few swing couples in my life and am honestly jealous of their marriages.

These are all starting points. If you have feedback, reactions, or need more just let me know here or pm me. Ive helped quite a few couples through the years and love to do it.