Hi I'm damokles and I ... would say I'm looking for new input and trying my luck here to meet interesting people.
I'm more of a listener and observer as I don't like to give ,to fast, information about myself away.
Because. Unfortunately, I have met a lot of people in my life who were not as "open minded" as I am.
Everyone has their own prejudices, but I have the feeling that most people have forgotten how to listen to other points of view and how to understand them.
There is only for or against. There's not much room in between for many people.
That's another reason why I find people so exhausting, and I hope to find people here who think logically.
Besides, sometimes I'm a little crazy in the head. At least that's what my friends say.
My kinky side doesn't help either. Most of my friends think I'm just a bit weird. But they don't really know anything about it. As a result, the exchange of information and experiences is difficult for me.
Other kinky people I've met are just looking for "the perfect dom or sub" or offering their experience for money.
It's more important to them that they get something, than to have a good conversation.
Stressful, as already mentioned.
I have always been dominant with my partners. But since I believe in trying out toys on myself first (as much as possible) to understand what they can do, and therefore also on my partner, this has made me quite curious about the other side. That's why I listed Switch here. But I haven't been able to try it out yet.
Otherwise have a look at this post my BDSM test
I'm also a bit out of my circle of friends with my "mindset". I do prefer women, but you enter into a relationship with a person, so gender doesn't matter. However, most people like monogamy, so it's complicated to have a relationship with a man if you're sexually attracted to women.
As a dom and also a sadist, I like the feeling of power and the suffering of others, so sexually I have no problem with men, because a feeling has no gender. However, this relates more to games and not to a more profound interpersonal relationship.
I don't know if you understand what I'm trying to say or if that's rather blah blah blah for you ^^
I don't know if anyone will ever read this, but if anyone wants to share their mindset with me, I would be very happy to do so.
Ps: If something sounds weird, sorry, english is not my mother tongue ^^
I'm more of a listener and observer as I don't like to give ,to fast, information about myself away.
Because. Unfortunately, I have met a lot of people in my life who were not as "open minded" as I am.
Everyone has their own prejudices, but I have the feeling that most people have forgotten how to listen to other points of view and how to understand them.
There is only for or against. There's not much room in between for many people.
That's another reason why I find people so exhausting, and I hope to find people here who think logically.
Besides, sometimes I'm a little crazy in the head. At least that's what my friends say.
My kinky side doesn't help either. Most of my friends think I'm just a bit weird. But they don't really know anything about it. As a result, the exchange of information and experiences is difficult for me.
Other kinky people I've met are just looking for "the perfect dom or sub" or offering their experience for money.
It's more important to them that they get something, than to have a good conversation.
Stressful, as already mentioned.
I have always been dominant with my partners. But since I believe in trying out toys on myself first (as much as possible) to understand what they can do, and therefore also on my partner, this has made me quite curious about the other side. That's why I listed Switch here. But I haven't been able to try it out yet.
Otherwise have a look at this post my BDSM test
I'm also a bit out of my circle of friends with my "mindset". I do prefer women, but you enter into a relationship with a person, so gender doesn't matter. However, most people like monogamy, so it's complicated to have a relationship with a man if you're sexually attracted to women.
As a dom and also a sadist, I like the feeling of power and the suffering of others, so sexually I have no problem with men, because a feeling has no gender. However, this relates more to games and not to a more profound interpersonal relationship.
I don't know if you understand what I'm trying to say or if that's rather blah blah blah for you ^^
I don't know if anyone will ever read this, but if anyone wants to share their mindset with me, I would be very happy to do so.
Ps: If something sounds weird, sorry, english is not my mother tongue ^^
