I agree that with time and greater understanding of each other there is less and less need to ask for clarifications and the trust built up is solid. I have experienced something similar as a sub even wrt pushing limits.For me, these intense feelings of submission grew over a long period of time, and gradually I felt myself following more and questioning less. That's not to say that I didn't ask for clarifications or explanations, but they were needed less and less over time due to the amount of trust that had built up, and it led to me willing and asking for my limits to be pushed further and further. So maybe following blindly was the wrong choice of wording, but in actual fact I meant complete and utter trust and willing submission.
Gathering the rest of my thoughts...a bit deep of a deep topic for a Monday night!
However this is something I am yet to experience on the receiving end as a Domme as I haven't had the opportunity to Domme the same person for that long a period of time. Also my style and objective of dominance is somewhat different though I am still in a relatively preliminary stage of discovering my style when compared to by submission style. I do not believe in pushing limits further as of now but just expanding horizons and exploring curiosities at most. I am also more into the mental control aspect than the sexual/tasks aspect for now but something I am working on.
Indeed a deep discussion exhausting my neurons..lol