It frustrates me that I'm a woman but I don't I don't have a boyfriend like most other women probably would?
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Is this is statement or a question? Are you asking for advice here?
Your previous thread seemed a little more focused concerning your perception of your appearance is this still what you are discussing?
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Somehow I can't see your quest moving on too far if you don't provide more information and open yourself up for discussion. Of course you can always fall back on the old adage "a picture paints a thousand words" if you're open to that. Just remember you will need to verify yourself if you want to show your face.
After seeing the prior thread and the lacking details here again. I gotta admit I’m not willing to contribute this time without some details to help know what and why first.
Well as I said, if you want advice you need to give us more information.
Without knowing what your situation is, what things you do and have tried we can't help.
I’ll go against my prior statement here.
Short version is 2 topics here.
1. You’re assuming most other women have boyfriends.
For this part. Plenty of women don’t have nor do they want a partner. Also some have girlfriends or are married etc. there isn’t a right or wrong choice here.
2. You feel less a woman because you do not have a bf and think that’s bad compared to other women who do.
Don’t live life for others. Live it for you. Don’t worry about what other women do. Do what you want to do and what you enjoy. Plenty of single people live a great life and enjoy not being locked down.
Now I think the biggest question here is the one that you’re not asking. I feel it could be a few options.
-Either you want help getting a bf. Advice tips etc.
-You want to know if others feel same as you do.
- you want people to reassure you that your situation is fine as is.
Short version is 2 topics here.
1. You’re assuming most other women have boyfriends.
For this part. Plenty of women don’t have nor do they want a partner. Also some have girlfriends or are married etc. there isn’t a right or wrong choice here.
2. You feel less a woman because you do not have a bf and think that’s bad compared to other women who do.
Don’t live life for others. Live it for you. Don’t worry about what other women do. Do what you want to do and what you enjoy. Plenty of single people live a great life and enjoy not being locked down.
Now I think the biggest question here is the one that you’re not asking. I feel it could be a few options.
-Either you want help getting a bf. Advice tips etc.
-You want to know if others feel same as you do.
- you want people to reassure you that your situation is fine as is.
Very true, and great a point. I date quite often but have not had a "boyfriend" for a few years. And honestly while I've met a few I would have previously considered potential long term relationship material, I don't want a boyfriend!
