Hi all! I’m a 26F, 5’2” 110lbs, blue eyes, brown hair, pale skin.
I’m looking for a non typical type of D/S relationship, I’ll do my best to explain.
First of all, I am asexual, in the sense that actual sexual contact or acts do nothing for me. What gets me sexually aroused is being controlled and forced to comply. So I’m looking for a partner who gets off on being controlling in ways other than sex. Sexual stuff isn’t necessarily a limit, but it needs to be discussed first.
Second, I want an online only relationship. I’m not in the right place in my life to do anything in person. Which is unfortunate, because I really like the idea of being beaten for pissing off my dom and that is just very difficult in an online setting.
Third, let me describe a bit more of what I mean by control. Essentially I want a dom who will give me rules and routines and enforce them strictly. But I want those rules and routines to have a purpose, with that being to help me be the best version of myself. I want someone who will force me to have good behaviors and habits, manage my time well, get things done, and improve myself. Of course, some rules or tasks may be just to please my dom and that’s fine, but I need someone who is prepared to make me do what they want, or else.
Fourth, I feel the need to clarify that I’m not by nature a submissive person, in that I don’t get any satisfaction out of service and my motivation for obeying a dom will not be to make him happy. So I need a partner who gets pleasure not from obedience in itself, but rather from the act of forcing compliance.
Finally, there is definitely a masochistic element to all of this. I want to be punished for messing up or disobeying my dom. I want to know that if I don’t follow orders, it will hurt. But where this is slightly different from your typical masochist is that it’s not exactly pain that gets me off. So I’m not going to be bratty just for a beating. It’s the enforcement of control that gets me off, and if I’m bratty it would be because I don’t feel that sense of control over me enough in that moment so I’m testing the boundaries of what I can get away with before my dom puts me back in my place.
Okay, if you’re still reading, and if you’re interested, message me and let’s talk more!
I’m looking for a non typical type of D/S relationship, I’ll do my best to explain.
First of all, I am asexual, in the sense that actual sexual contact or acts do nothing for me. What gets me sexually aroused is being controlled and forced to comply. So I’m looking for a partner who gets off on being controlling in ways other than sex. Sexual stuff isn’t necessarily a limit, but it needs to be discussed first.
Second, I want an online only relationship. I’m not in the right place in my life to do anything in person. Which is unfortunate, because I really like the idea of being beaten for pissing off my dom and that is just very difficult in an online setting.
Third, let me describe a bit more of what I mean by control. Essentially I want a dom who will give me rules and routines and enforce them strictly. But I want those rules and routines to have a purpose, with that being to help me be the best version of myself. I want someone who will force me to have good behaviors and habits, manage my time well, get things done, and improve myself. Of course, some rules or tasks may be just to please my dom and that’s fine, but I need someone who is prepared to make me do what they want, or else.
Fourth, I feel the need to clarify that I’m not by nature a submissive person, in that I don’t get any satisfaction out of service and my motivation for obeying a dom will not be to make him happy. So I need a partner who gets pleasure not from obedience in itself, but rather from the act of forcing compliance.
Finally, there is definitely a masochistic element to all of this. I want to be punished for messing up or disobeying my dom. I want to know that if I don’t follow orders, it will hurt. But where this is slightly different from your typical masochist is that it’s not exactly pain that gets me off. So I’m not going to be bratty just for a beating. It’s the enforcement of control that gets me off, and if I’m bratty it would be because I don’t feel that sense of control over me enough in that moment so I’m testing the boundaries of what I can get away with before my dom puts me back in my place.
Okay, if you’re still reading, and if you’re interested, message me and let’s talk more!
