Welcome. You will get better results if you can add in your likes, dislikes, hard limits, toys, any restrictions. Also use caution since you admit you’re new. Lots of people take advantage of newcomers. You do not owe anyone anything. Just because you are “a sub” doesn’t mean you are “everyone’s sub”. People using pet names and demanding titles are probably full of shit. These should come with time and after discussion and consent. You always always always have the right to say no to anything and have limits without fear of punishment or repercussion. Do not allow the predator type to fool you otherwise. Happy kinking
Stroll through the forums and read through the posts and sex play genres.
Somethings will begin to arose you so that is where to start = at the new found things that arouse you.
You can then ask questions, get advice, and begin posting seeking play mates for those.
Sex play people tend to super focus on that 1 thing they are into which is fine, but makes it hard to connect via general forum.
There are SO MANY THINGS TO TRY, that you can go quite awhile and not run out of them.
Just explore, experiment, and HAVE FUN.