Newbie 🥹

[Renegade Girl]

Hello lovelies,

If I’m being completely honest I am so fucking new to all of this. I’ve always been kinky but am just now realizing there’s a whole community of people who think and feel the way I do.

I love to be punished, choked, spanked and more. I want to experience all kind of things. I want to explore my limits without being judged and I just want to say thanks to all of you for being so informative and so sweet to me.

I think I’m going to love it here.

 

[subzzzero]

Hello lovelies,

If I’m being completely honest I am so fucking new to all of this. I’ve always been kinky but am just now realizing there’s a whole community of people who think and feel the way I do.

I love to be punished, choked, spanked and more. I want to experience all kind of things. I want to explore my limits without being judged and I just want to say thanks to all of you for being so informative and so sweet to me.

I think I’m going to love it here.

Vet people properly.
You can always say no
Just because you are “a sub” does not mean you are “everyone’s sub”.
A Dom needs to earn that title with each dynamic
Lots of fakes seeking a warm wet hole to put it in so trust your gut. There’s lots more on my post history I’m sure. But just the fact you announce new and lacking Exp puts you on a list for the wolves so read profiles here you can see their past post history as well and see if it’s just all one liner send me nudes type crap.

 

[Naughty nova]

Never be afraid to ask questions. Remember they don't get to play with you without your permission. You have the right to ask questions. And shop around. If it feels right them go for it if something feels off ask someone if you need to. And don't give up if the first dom isn't the right fit. Remember you are aloud to have limits. And just because it's your dom's thing does not mean you absolutely have to do it if it's a hard limit for you. You can ask to test the waters and see if it is something you would be ok with. Just because you say no to something does not make you a bad sub

 

[Renegade Girl]

Never be afraid to ask questions. Remember they don't get to play with you without your permission. You have the right to ask questions. And shop around. If it feels right them go for it if something feels off ask someone if you need to. And don't give up if the first dom isn't the right fit. Remember you are aloud to have limits. And just because it's your dom's thing does not mean you absolutely have to do it if it's a hard limit for you. You can ask to test the waters and see if it is something you would be ok with. Just because you say no to something does not make you a bad sub

Thank you! I appreciate all the advice I can get!

 

[Renegade Girl]

Vet people properly.
You can always say no
Just because you are “a sub” does not mean you are “everyone’s sub”.
A Dom needs to earn that title with each dynamic
Lots of fakes seeking a warm wet hole to put it in so trust your gut. There’s lots more on my post history I’m sure. But just the fact you announce new and lacking Exp puts you on a list for the wolves so read profiles here you can see their past post history as well and see if it’s just all one liner send me nudes type crap.

thank you! I appreciate you being here to keep the community honest and safe for people like me.

 

[conviction]

Hello! You already got messaged by the resident forum parent with some amazing advice so I will just say welcome! I hope you have fun!

 

[ritz]

Hello lovelies,

If I’m being completely honest I am so fucking new to all of this. I’ve always been kinky but am just now realizing there’s a whole community of people who think and feel the way I do.

I love to be punished, choked, spanked and more. I want to experience all kind of things. I want to explore my limits without being judged and I just want to say thanks to all of you for being so informative and so sweet to me.

I think I’m going to love it here.

sounds good- all the best

 

[Damokles]

A warm welcome and have fun exploring.
As in the real world, there are many points of view and there is rarely one right way.
It is good to ask for different answers and information on the same topic and it is not wrong to create your own path from this. Try things out, use your mind and do what you feel comfortable with.
As has already been said, don't let negative experiences unsettle you, not everything will work out perfectly straight away and some things simply take time.
Have fun.

 

[Renegade Girl]

A warm welcome and have fun exploring.
As in the real world, there are many points of view and there is rarely one right way.
It is good to ask for different answers and information on the same topic and it is not wrong to create your own path from this. Try things out, use your mind and do what you feel comfortable with.
As has already been said, don't let negative experiences unsettle you, not everything will work out perfectly straight away and some things simply take time.
Have fun.

Thank you I’m having a lot of fun so far & have come across all kind of people & most everyone has been really helpful and supportive, which honestly I did not expect.

 

[Evacherry]

Hello fellow newbie
Subzzzero has "hit the nail on the head" and I agree. While this community is amazing !! And so so so supportive, just be careful

Welcome

 

[Renegade Girl]

Hello fellow newbie
Subzzzero has "hit the nail on the head" and I agree. While this community is amazing !! And so so so supportive, just be careful

Welcome

Thank you!

 

[LordPaul]

I agree with the comment that all Doms need to earn that title. So many Doms forget the Golden Rule of being a Dom. That is really simple. The sun is giving you a gift of themselves, respect and cherish that gift as it can be revoked and taken away at anytime. If Doms would remember that they would be of greater service to their Sub. Perhaps classes should be taught.

Being a Dom is something that takes time to learn how to do properly. It took me a few years to learn to do it properly. Take your time Hun. It is perfectly acceptable and should be accepted by any Dom that you interview them and get them thoroughly before you submit to them. Any Dom that is not willing to undertake an interview and vetting by you is not worth your time or effort. That is a Major red flag. Just as they should be asking you questions about yourself they should be happy to answer any and all questions that you have.