Orgasm Control - Technical Help

[subdream]

Well... I didn't see a forum to post this kind of thread, so here it is.

Many people like controlling orgasms or having their orgasms controlled. I am no stranger to this concept. I guess being horny can help with feeling submissive, even more so in case you can't do anything about it. And while in normal circumstances a chastity device might be perfect for ensuring orgasm denial, this is not viable when stimulation is in order to make somebody wet and horny.

Now this is when my orgasm control is handy. This is best distributed with just so much stimulation that the sub feels the orgasm coming and then stopping all stimulation. This obviously needs much experience and good knowledge of the submissive and their body. So I asked myself if there might be any way to provide some assistance to the dominant person, preferredly technical assistance.

What is a good way to predict an orgasm? Heart rate? Blood pressure? And how to measure it while playing? And suggestions, fellow kinksters?

With a good understanding and some means to detect a nearing orgasm, one might design a device which automatically stimulates a sub until orgasm is near and stops. One might also consider the system to automatically restart once the heat faded. Thus the dominant might concentrate on more sinister things... or just their own arousal.

 

[ClosedAccount9898]

I like the way you think, but let me tell you that such knowledge is by the master indeed. Let me talk about my self, i feel close of the orgasm of my sub by several factors, her heart beats, body temperature, leg and thai vibration and maybe her eye movements.
But these factors differ from a girl to another, well, some girls has whole body vibration and some get so hot body , and other got so so wet just before orgasm and this is when i stop stimulation.

And also timing is different, a girl maybe take 5 minutes but another took 15 minutes.

That's why i think making a device doing that job it withdraw my pleasure actually hahaha.

 

[subdream]

That's why i think making a device doing that job it withdraw my pleasure actually hahaha.

That might be the case for you. But having such a device might be great for dominant persons who want to - for example - be orally satisfied while having their sub constantly on the edge. Or for single player mode. Or for submissives which want to prepare for their dominant person to return home. Or for different other various reasons.

So... is there a way to have such a device?

 

[ClosedAccount9898]

That might be the case for you. But having such a device might be great for dominant persons who want to - for example - be orally satisfied while having their sub constantly on the edge. Or for single player mode. Or for submissives which want to prepare for their dominant person to return home. Or for different other various reasons.

So... is there a way to have such a device?

I understand your point, that's would be awesome if such device is made.

 

[mika_luna]

I was thinking about such edging device too.
You can create a butt plug with a pressure sensor. When you are nearing orgasm your pc muscles contract and put pressure, then you'd turn off the stimulation. No idea if that works similar for girls too.

There is a concept for that same idea here: https://github.com/nogasm/nogasm

 

[subdream]

I guess I need an inflatable butt plug and enough time to try that.

 

[mika_luna]

I guess I need an inflatable butt plug and enough time to try that.

Or you spend like 500$ for a prebuilt one

Sounds like a genuine fun toy and suprisingly no big company made a product out if it yet.

 

[subdream]

Or you spend like 500$ for a prebuilt one

I probably will, but I assume that the relevant pressure is different for everybody. So I will need a couple orgasms to test that. Well orgasms... nothing wrong with them.

 

[PunisherH]

I probably will, but I assume that the relevant pressure is different for everybody. So I will need a couple orgasms to test that. Well orgasms... nothing wrong with them.

U are right, it will need trial and error but a heart beat pressure sensor is what i had in mind. It will be more acurate.
If u want i can help with the programing as i like to build these devices espicially the ones that torture

 

[Nuts Milk]

I don't know if you are talking about a male or female sub, so I'll say what I know - the signs and signals that precede the male orgasm. There are many signals, some of them earlier, others right before the PONR (point of no return), so:

- one of the most visible signal is balls rising. Depending of age, health status and chastity days, male's balls hang more or less lower. If you watch to the balls hanging while teasing and edging a male, you will see that his balls start to rise up to the base of the penis, looking like two hard rocks before the ejaculation.
- other easy observable parameter is cock's aspect. After getting erect, while teasing and especially during the edging, the cock becomes fully erect, as just before the ejaculation it gets biger, with it's veins swollen and the the glans (cock head) increasing it's volume. Same time, the balls become rock hard and get to rise higher, as on each side of the penis. Now you can also feel man's breath:
- another but subtle parameter of the imminent orgasm is man's pulse. Cause the pulse is not so visible to watch, you can follow male's breath. A higher pulse means more blood that need to be oxygenated, so a more rapid breath shows, in this case, an increasingly blood pulse.

Overall, personally I would count on balls rising, then cock's and glan's swollen and only at the end I'd watch the breath.From now on, you can do what you wish - get a denial, ruin his orgasm, or strongly continue with a tremendous ejaculation.

 

[Damokles]

I don't know if you are talking about a male or female sub, so I'll say what I know - the signs and signals that precede the male orgasm. There are many signals, some of them earlier, others right before the PONR (point of no return), so:

- one of the most visible signal is balls rising. Depending of age, health status and chastity days, male's balls hang more or less lower. If you watch to the balls hanging while teasing and edging a male, you will see that his balls start to rise up to the base of the penis, looking like two hard rocks before the ejaculation.
- other easy observable parameter is cock's aspect. After getting erect, while teasing and especially during the edging, the cock becomes fully erect, as just before the ejaculation it gets biger, with it's veins swollen and the the glans (cock head) increasing it's volume. Same time, the balls become rock hard and get to rise higher, as on each side of the penis. Now you can also feel man's breath:
- another but subtle parameter of the imminent orgasm is man's pulse. Cause the pulse is not so visible to watch, you can follow male's breath. A higher pulse means more blood that need to be oxygenated, so a more rapid breath shows, in this case, an increasingly blood pulse.

Overall, personally I would count on balls rising, then cock's and glan's swollen and only at the end I'd watch the breath.From now on, you can do what you wish - get a denial, ruin his orgasm, or strongly continue with a tremendous ejaculation.

It's refreshing to notice how much you observe things in the opposite sex and through such information you notice what signals your own body is sending. People are always learning ^^

There is a concept for that same idea here: https://github.com/nogasm/nogasm

Sounds interesting.