Popping the cherry

[subbysecret]

Apologies if this is out of place, but I was thinking in the shower about how a lot of people (okay, mainly women) don't have the greatest experiences of their first time.

I know this isn't particularly kinky (unless maybe it's somebody's kink specifically to "deflower" virgins in which case it is ), but I wondered if we could discuss advice and experiences on what would make for a great first experience for someone, whatever their gender and pronouns are?

 

[StormyDungeons]

It sounds like a great topic line however as bit out of place in a kink forum.

One reason being = kinks are for experienced people.

The 2nd being = kinks are for adults. Most lose their virginity between ages 13-17 and that could not legally be a practical discussion unless it only involved adults talking about how there own.

As a teen its mostly hot, heavy, horny, and fast. As an experienced adult when i think about my teen adventures i cringe.

 

[andrei]

If we are talking about a shy male on his first experience...

Cuddling and taking off my shirt. Then polite ask her to take off her shirt.
She did but she became hysterical (we drank a bit). I helped her put her shirt on back.

The funny thing went on days after: You saw my tits. Then I want to see more in exchange. I want to see your dick.
I went: OK.

Then: now I want to see your pussy. You already saw my dick.

And so on... Polite, smooth, nice memories Hope this answers. And of course, virgins! Both.

 

[subbysecret]

The 2nd being = kinks are for adults. Most lose their virginity between ages 13-17 and that could not legally be a practical discussion unless it only involved adults talking about how there own.

For most, but not for all. I was 19 when I lost mine, my wife was 18 (not to each other sadly). By that time, I already had some well-established kinks that persevere to this day in my 40's.

Granted, not MANY members will be able to get an advantage from it, but maybe some will, and maybe someone on here has a thing for virgins, so... Ages of consent differ country to country, in the UK it's 16 so it may still be able to help some people have a good experience

 

[StormyDungeons]

How about this more practical twist - virgin at kink/fetishes.

Example = at age 22 i had a serious thing for this 19 year old girl but so was so- so about that. HOWEVER - this girl had a 21 year old sister that totally wanted in my pants and 1 day she tells me = if i take care of what was in her pants she would guarantee me getting into her sisters pants.

So of course i went along with that offer. Now the older sister was a total extravert and a daredevil type which meant she was not only sexually randy, but was going places in that most people didnt do in the early 1990s.

My wakeup call happened pretty fast. She set up a bedroom encounter with me & the sister. She was even there.

She had younger sis on the edge of the bed and me laying over her from the end making love......

Then older sis begins PLAYING WITH MY ASS. First a finger rubbing around. Then the smell of suntan lotion as she smeared it there. Then she finger fucked me then all stopped for a minute .....

But then she had put on a leather harness and an 8inch dildo and penetrates me and proceded to fuck my ass.

It was crazy and she begins talking to me telling me i belonged to THEM and they would do any sex thing to me they wanted and if i wanted the pussy i needed to play along.

Well me getting ass fucked made baby sis so freaking horny it was insane. She got so wet and lubricated her pussy made slurping sounds.

And then the whole prostate message kicked in and i ejaculated. More than once. Then i roll off the girl and lay face down across the bed. Thats when older sister tells me it was her turn and rolls me on my side so she could climb under and i see baby sis is putting on the harness.

The whole sex act repeated only baby sis was WAY MORE INTO FUCKING MY ASS THAN I THOUGHT MIGHT BE NORMAL.

In fact she made the whole 8 inches go in and proceeded to rape my colon.

At some point i was basically in an orgasmic coma.

The aftermath for me lasted for several days and my prostate and anus was so sensitive i dribbled semen.

Now that was not my 1st sex experience and not 1st time with more than 1 girl same time.

IT WAS MY 1ST TIME GETTING ANAL, MY 1ST TIME BEING BASICALLY OWNED, AND MY 1ST TIME BEING PEGGED.

Which was how i lost 3 forms of my virginity all at the same time.

To this day.....

I love being both pegged by females and anally pounded by endowed guys. That all started way back when i lost my anal virginity.

So......

Hows is that for a much more practical suggestion that really matches the purpose of this site?

There are so many naughty, nasty, kinky, and perverted ways to lose virginity over.

1st time being cucked

1st time being peed into your mouth/pussy/ass

1st time being handcuffed, fisted, bound&gagged....

1st time gang sex

1st time sex machine

1st time with same sex partner

1st time cum in mouth and/cum swallow

1st time sex with insects

1st time sex with a person of another race

1st time having sexual fantasies about animals.

I once worked a summer at a famous horse farm and got visually introduced to mare pussy which is exactly the same orientation as woman pussy if she is on her knees only the proportions are larger and when these creatures go into estrous = omg. This huge mega clitoris begins winking (contracting) and these are so horny that people are paid to masturbate them. Mares have orgasms.

Having seen that all first hand never left my sexual subconscious which led me this past year to BUY A HORSE PUSSY MASTURBATOR. This mom and pop enterprise makes these in a garage and sells them on ETSY. BEST MASTURBATOR IVE EVER OWNED.

Another group hailing as BAD DRAGON also makes them as well as simulated dog and fantasy ones like dragon pussy not to mention animal penis dildos .....

which you can now find on aliexpress and ebay especially if you search = flared dildo.

So there is so much now to think about. So many dark deep erotic and even disturbing ways and things to be virgins to......

and and equal if not greater list of how when where and to who we lost those virginities.

 

[Chicogriego74]

How can you have sex with insects???

 

[StormyDungeons]

Its a whole thing called formicophilia and its real. Some guys put earthworms or maggots in their penis.

I saw a video where a guy put honey on his penis and then placed it against an anthill. It mostly involves having bugs crawl on you in your gental area.

it also goes bdsm with wasps yellow jackets or meal worms that bite.

In the past 10 years it had exploded as a sex play genre for better or worse. There are some mainstream porn sites like motherless that have a featured section for videos on this.

Its different. In many ways it all like something 8 year olds would do but then almost all sex play is along those lines.

I suggest you look up and watch some videos. Its educational.