porn control and conditioning

[nina]

I am not sure if this is a kink and not even experienced in this but I find that the idea of giving control of 100% of one's porn viewing to their dominant (including how much, what and when) is quite appealing from the perspective of a submissive. Moreover it also provides for a platform for the submissive to be conditioned and molded as per the Dominant's preferences.

Is this a kink according to you and does this appeal to you in either roles? Is this conditioning, is it stretching things a bit too much? What are your thoughts on this topic?

 

[MissKubo]

I'm not sure if it's the same thing, but my husband has me watch a lot of porn with the things he wants to do with me. I guess it's not total control because I can still pick my own and enjoy my favourites, but it's definitely thrilling/terrifying/erotic when he has me watch something he's specified

 

[nina]

I'm not sure if it's the same thing, but my husband has me watch a lot of porn with the things he wants to do with me. I guess it's not total control because I can still pick my own and enjoy my favourites, but it's definitely thrilling/terrifying/erotic when he has me watch something he's specified

Yes, I get how "having to watch" something "specified" can be exciting and along the lines of the same concept of porn control.

 

[MissKubo]

I think I might give it a try for a couple of weeks and see what he gives me, and I'll let you know what it's like, especially since he's going to be away a lot in the run up to Christmas (he's a lorry driver)

 

[J91]

From a submissive point of view, I have loved it when viewing of any porn was at the discretion of my dominant. That included what particular videos I could watch, how long for, and whether allowed to touch myself during.

I think it depends on the degree of control that a submissive is willing to give to their dominant.

 

[nina]

I think it depends on the degree of control that a submissive is willing to give to their dominant.

Agreed, fair point, the degree of control and what porn types are an absolute limit or no-go for the sub needs to be discussed before implementing.

 

[subzzzero]

Ive never really controlled it for my subs, not in the aspect of what they could watch or when etc. I did however require that each time they were watching they would forward me the links so that it was more like an observations and monitoring type thing. They also enjoyed sharing it as we would add in twists to how we might re inact those scenes during a session with one another.

 

[Magnetic]

I really don't know how to answer to this poll.

Do you mean some control of someone else, even in the sightliest amount, over my viewing, not, in the least bit. Indeed, I am repoulsed by the sole idea.

Do you mean total and absolute control about my slavegirl's porn watching, you bet it does! I am doing it already...

 

[nina]

I really don't know how to answer to this poll.

Do you mean some control of someone else, even in the sightliest amount, over my viewing, not, in the least bit. Indeed, I am repoulsed by the sole idea.

Do you mean total and absolute control about my slavegirl's porn watching, you bet it does! I am doing it already...

Yeah the poll question seems to be directed towards bottoms or subs, I only noticed after posting when I couldn't edit, though it is intended to be for all to discuss irrespective of orientations.

 

[Magnetic]

I see... Thanks for the clarification!

 

[ExplorerOfDesires]

Something related but not quite the same: forced to view porn.

This is something I came across on plenty of bimbofication related blogs. And instead of a porn-filter, they have news-filters instead. Just imagine having to watch a daily dose of porn before being allowed to use the internet. Would this be something that appeas to you as well?

This question however has started me thinking. I enjoy letting a sub explore the internet for different kind of kinks and let her tell her what she (dis)likes about it (hence my nickname). But a simple step further would be ordering a sub to search for a theme-related clip every other day. And that theme probably being degrading porn.

 

[andrei]

I have played a game before: must watch particular porn while being in chastity.

 

[liveslaveboi]

Yes I definitely would like my Domme to pick out the videos I’m allowed to watch. Sounds like a great time!

 

[dread_]

I love this concept, especially as far as conditioning goes. There are a lot of cool "brainwashing" videos out there too.

 

[andrei]

I'd like to see this idea in a dare game.
Dare to watch the full movie, fast forwarding forbidden, hands off touch zones! Maybe using a VR helmet in the confort of your bed (cheap smartphone helmet) proper situation for a hands free orgasm . Or be forced to watch something new to you. Scary at first but exciting.

 

[smadanayr88]

Would love to be forced to watch whatever porn someone decides to send me.

 

[andrei]

Would love to be forced to watch whatever porn someone decides to send me.

This calls for a different "I dare you" thread.

 

[Buckwheat1989]

Dare to watch the full movie, fast forwarding forbidden, hands off touch zones! Maybe using a VR helmet in the comfort of your bed (cheap smartphone helmet) proper situation for a hands free orgasm . Or be forced to watch something new to you. Scary at first but exciting.

Going so far as to lock the users controls too would be neat (remote control, teamviewer/anydesk)

I'd like to also have someone put parental controls on the computer to stop the sub from watching anything when they aren't allowed. (or don't and punishment ensues if they do?)

If you want to do this, please let me know.