Pretty pussy?

[Doctor Pervert]

A few days ago I posted a thread called, "Are you happy with your vagina" which so far has polled 2 whole votes and one response from the always dependable @nina.

Are you happy with your vagina?

Something I came across recently was this article on women's attitude to their vaginas. Sadly it seems in this survey 48% of women responding indicated they were unhappy with the appearance of their vulva in some way...

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Which in some ways says it all, this is a tough subject to discuss, but why? What is it that makes for a pretty pussy, why is it so hard to talk about and discuss?

There is a lot of blame laid on porn for using models with a specific genitalia look, tight, tidy and trim is the most common way but is this what people actually like? What does it for you? Why does it matter? Are big, prominent labia a turn on or is it better if they hide away? Surely this is all subjective and different people like different things?




So lets see what everyone thinks, what's attractive to you, what's your fave look, hidden or right out there, tight or gaping, hairy or clean shaved?

Personally I find them all fascinating, so much variety, so much to like, so much to play with. Big clits, tiny ones that are hard to find, big meaty labia and wide gaping holes, it really doesn't matter to me as each is as unique as it's owner, intricate, intimate and wonderful to explore.

 

[subzzzero]

My thought has always been each one is unique in its own way and. But regardless of all the various options…… they’re all still pink inside. And honestly I think I like the variety. I feel it they were all the same it would feel less interesting to me. People love to look at flowers but if there was only one flower type in the world it would be a boring place.

 

[Scrib]

Try Laura Dodworth's books for some real world genitalia:

Womanhood: The Bare Reality
&
Manhood: The Bare Reality

The penii are soft only, and there is no clitoral arousal shown. Revealing the showers and growers, the shy and the excited, would have made good books great.

 

[Scrib]

In answer to your question to me also it is subjective. It varies for each woman and each observer. Two people might see the same vulva very differently.

Its not just visuals, good partner fit is really important.

When younger I had not appreciated how much more play pubic hair offers. Whilst a bare pubis or penis is a nice submissive visual, it is not always the most attractive option for that individual.

What about piercings, urethral plugs (female and male), FGM and MGM both cultural and aesthetic?

There is a lot to discuss here, and this is such a good question. It is a shame that more people are not posting.

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Actually, this is a really good point.

When younger I had not appreciated how much more play pubic hair offers.

What's the deal with hairy pubes these days? Surely it's a lot of extra maintenance work to keep it totally bare as opposed to just a tidy trim. And yes, hairs do get stuck in your teeth so there's that, but what's your reason for going hairless or not?



Does it add mystery, is it just more convenient to let it grow, or is it something you just can't stand and have to shave or wax off?

 

[Keyinkey93]

Actually, this is a really good point.

What's the deal with hairy pubes these days? Surely it's a lot of extra maintenance work to keep it totally bare as opposed to just a tidy trim. And yes, hairs do get stuck in your teeth so there's that, but what's your reason for going hairless or not?

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Does it add mystery, is it just more convenient to let it grow, or is it something you just can't stand and have to shave or wax off?

For me, the hair irritates me and I just shave it all off. But sometimes that in itself irritates me, too.still haven't found my happy medium yet.

 

[Doctor Pervert]

For me, the hair irritates me and I just shave it all off. But sometimes that in itself irritates me, too.still haven't found my happy medium yet.

This seems to be a common enough complaint, often the waxers seem to prefer that to shaving for the less irritation part. Of course you have to be into waxing for that to work and it comes with it's own share of problems not least of which is cost.

 

[Keyinkey93]

Cost and uncomfo

This seems to be a common enough complaint, often the waxers seem to prefer that to shaving for the less irritation part. Of course you have to be into waxing for that to work and it comes with it's own share of problems not least of which is cost.

Cost and uncomfort with a stranger is actually why I stopped. Plus I was getting ingrowns from it so I just went back to shaving.

 

[subzzzero]

Local play partners ive bene with who have that irritation issue as well. Prefer shaved clean outer lips and only trimmed mons area. Less irritation and ingrowns that way.

 

[Keyinkey93]

Local play partners ive bene with who have that irritation issue as well. Prefer shaved clean outer lips and only trimmed mons area. Less irritation and ingrowns that way.

Exactly I tend to save my lips and leave my mom's be until it gets too long and then I shave it but I guess I should try trimming it instead.

 

[subzzzero]

Exactly I tend to save my lips and leave my mom's be until it gets too long and then I shave it but I guess I should try trimming it instead.

Yes using a hair trimmer with a guard just long enough to not be prickly. That seems to work best.

 

[Scrib]

Let us not forget sugaring!

 

[Keyinkey93]

Let us not forget sugaring!

Persona ally id be worried with sugar in that area due to pH balance offset. I used to be pretty sensitive and even the detergent I used created problems before.

 

[Merlin]

There is also the option of laser hair removal if your hair is dark and the skin light, of course the most costly option

 

[Scrib]

Persona ally id be worried with sugar in that area due to pH balance offset. I used to be pretty sensitive and even the detergent I used created problems before.

Have you ever used Honey as an anti-lubricant? Was that problematic for you?

 

[Keyinkey93]

Have you ever used Honey as an anti-lubricant? Was that problematic for you?

Nope, I actually haven't used anything due to my sensitive skin.

 

[Keyinkey93]

I'm in for anything natural looking. Big, small, stretched, opened anything you can name. I also love a furry coat. Sadly nowadays most ladies love a pristine bald one. Also don't mind going down when it's hairy.

And for what it's worth my love for anything natural goes beyond just pussy and tit's. A woman is mostly more beautiful without make up or any plastic surgery in my humble opinion.

That being said. Maybe some American's can explain to my why all celebrities want to look the same nowadays with those big lips and Botox fillings.

I don't understand the big lips and all that jazz either. I'm not too big on makeup either. Rarely wear it myself unless going to a wedding or just feeling dumpy and want to make myself feel good lol. Although I did have plastic surgery but that was to remove extra skin and repair my muscles after extreme weight loss. So it was more medically inclined. But I do go for the bald look myself out of comfort at least upon initial shave. I'll regret it in a couple days lol.