If it’s indeed really hard to get ahold of your ldr dom “a lot” then it may be time to find a better fit. Especially if that wasn’t clearly set in expectations during your negotiations talks.
That being said if you want things here it’s best to lead with good info. likes, dislikes, limits, toys, restrictions etc. this will help people make an actual effort in what you seek. If not you’ll still get plenty of half assed replies I’m sure but it’s sort of like get back the level of effort in which you put in first. Hope this helps. Get some details and I’ll help that ass get red.