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Orientation
Dominant
Region
United States (West of the Rockies)
Age
18
Kinks
Deepthroating, whips, kissing, slapping, scat/piss, etc

Whoresshouldbepunished

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I'm 18 yrs old and new to domming. What kind of advice/suggestions do any of you have to ppl that are new to the concept? Not sure if this is the right place for the message, but just figured I would try. Unfortunatelyyours42 is my kik, any girl subs can feel free to message me on there if they are interested in a relationship.

What got most of you into domming and/or subbing?
 

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Understand that what you see in porn and in 50 shades etc is bullshit fantasy.
 
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Merlin

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I'm 18 yrs old and new to domming. What kind of advice/suggestions do any of you have to ppl that are new to the concept? Not sure if this is the right place for the message, but just figured I would try. Unfortunatelyyours42 is my kik, any girl subs can feel free to message me on there if they are interested in a relationship.

What got most of you into domming and/or subbing?
I would give the sam advice i give new subs, take your time and go slow.
Being a good dominant takes even more time and learning than the submissive side, so even more important to give yourself a lot of time and ask a lot questions.
A mentor can for sure be a good option or instead or even better in addition talking with other doms and maybe some experienced subs in general.

To the question what brought me into it. I always had some interests in the area, even as kid, but to the more serious side was a submissive friend of my sister that was looking for someone going with her to a meeting in a local bdsm club were she did not want to go alone and asked me if i may escort her.
 

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