not interested in being your mistress But, What rules are you interested in? What kind of protocols? LOVE the delayed gratification/denial. (Im unfortunately new to terminology) Whats edging? And yes discipline is extremely important. Im here to learn, not play. Yet.
Edge to get as close to the orgasm as u can, then stop hands off (or whatever ur doing).
If some1 ordered you not to cum and do so.. ull probably get punishment
"Walking on the edge of a knife"
If u are holding ur orgasm for some time, it will be harder to stop and more frustrating.
If u came until dry it will be harder to reach that point.
If u have an adrenaline rush due to previus stuff... its harder to stop
And so on and so on.