So I'm just testing the waters of BDSM punishment and I would like some ideas for my tits pussy and ass. I'm not able to get condoms or any such things due to parents. So it has to be household items.
So im new
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“Ideas” is a vague request. Insertions, clamping, Chem play, stretching, stimulation, vibration, pain?
Let’s just hit this quick before the usual fantasy porn believers drop utter nonsense.
Anything you insert inside you needs to be clean and smooth no sharp edges points or seams. Since you mentioned household things. Also be sure the item is either too long to be lost inside or has a lanyard of sorts. Small items will get lost inside of both holes and may require a trip to the dr to remove.
If it’s going in Anally find something with some give to it, if it’s rigid don’t push in deep Youll risk tearing into the second sphincter and causing damage.
Size wise use caution. Too much too fast can cause scar tissue and that will never go back to the same elasticity. Work your way up slow increasing as you can tolerate it.
Thank you for this I've gotten a few replies but they dont seem to be on the same page.
As @subzzzero said it is always wise to start slow and be careful
What is it you think about if you say punishments? Is it a way of you saying "I want painful tasks"?
Real punishments are in general given to change a bad behaviour, not just out of the blue
What is it you think about if you say punishments? Is it a way of you saying "I want painful tasks"?
Real punishments are in general given to change a bad behaviour, not just out of the blue
Then a painful taskis what I'm looking forAs @subzzzero said it is always wise to start slow and be careful
What is it you think about if you say punishments? Is it a way of you saying "I want painful tasks"?
Real punishments are in general given to change a bad behaviour, not just out of the blue
That is why he said "before the usual fantasy porn believers drop utter nonsense"
A lot people live in a fantasy world when it comes to bdsm
As beginner i would advice you to start by testing yourself a bit first.
For example for spanking you can use your hand, a hair brush, a belt, a wood cooking spoon. Just be sure that you use something sturdy enough so they won't break
Try to hit your ass cheeks with different things lets say 10 times per side and check what kind of pain feels "best". You can also adjust how hard you hit.
Also stay with the ass (at most the thighs) for now. The ass is a big muscle and so hard to cause any real damage, so best as beginner before you learn some basic safety when it comes to spanking. Just be sure to not hit your lower back by accident.
Report how it felt and what you liked and didn't like
