Starter Question

[NewMember]

Hello again everyone,
As someone who declaring myself as a sub just recently, I realised that I'm not understand about what I want yet in this community.

If it's not bothering you, I want to ask where's the point when you realise what you want or experience that make you sure if you can find your desired things in this community?

 

[Naughty nova]

For me it has changed as to what I want. Because I am learning as I go. I am still new to this. I have seen what others have tried and if it peeks my interest I talk to my Dom about it and we try it. Do not ever be afraid to try something and say no that's just not my thing.

 

[subzzzero]

It’s sort of like having a favorite food or movie. You find interest in it by some sort of experience. In the case of kink. Maybe it’s a book or movie scene that sparked your interest. Maybe it’s a friends story about their experience. Maybe you just are curious and want to explore and much like foods, sampling things will help you refine your focus.

I suggest just looking into yourself on whys you’re here. What initially got you here. Then just explore and research various kinks to see what appeals to you.

I found what i liked before I joined the community. A vanilla girlfriend wanted spanks and choking in the bedroom. It interested me and I started exploring found a mentor etc. over the years I found many more kink interests and built my list