Sub or Switch? Who fucking cares?

[Renegade Girl]

I am realizing more and more that I am as uncomfortable with kink labels as I am with labels in the vanilla world. I’m not technically just bisexual I’m not technically just a sub. I am not “just” anything and it feels frustrating sometimes. Even when the boxes are more abstract, I still don’t fit. Not trying to complain more just venting my thoughts. I doubt anyone will read something so not sexy whatsoever, but I feel better already.

I’ve switched over to the dark side a time or two and I loved it but I know I’m so comfortable and happy being submissive. But does that mean I’ll never get to be anything else? No. I’ll be whatever I wake up and want to be that day. I never did well fitting in, so cheers to the misfits… even on this side of the world. Once a misfit always a misfit.

Kiss my candle wax sprinkled ass

 

[Jollyguy]

misfits love

 

[subzzzero]

Titles are less important. A good time and pairing are what matters most

 

[subbysecret]

God, I used to think I was so dominant but I always loved tying my dick up... My wife let me tie her tits up one time and it was amazing though

I have no idea what I actually am these days, my desires are all over the place. I'm just a kinky mess (and some would say not even that kinky since I don't really do pain).

Basically, labels schmables

 

[Robbie86]

You're so right! Same struggles here. These labels are more related to the mood of the day.
One label I would put on you my friend is Awesome! As a submissive, a dominant and just the genuine person that you are!

 

[Renegade Girl]

You're so right! Same struggles here. These labels are more related to the mood of the day.
One label I would put on you my friend is Awesome! As a submissive, a dominant and just the genuine person that you are!

That’s so sweet of you to say!

Right back at you Rob!