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Honestly seeing it’s from India it’s zero to no effort on a real attempt at giving likes dislikes limits toys and privacy avail. I won’t spend my time setting out a task at all. And I get people have the pic vid limit. I respect those but when it’s all this together I would make sure I verify it’s legit a female before anything else.
It wasn’t just the location alone. And I’m not in any way saying everyone from there is fake. I was saying based on the combination of all I listed. Also to go a bit further into it. Unless the laws changed the county can view porn but is not allowed to upload or create their own content . It’s a messy read. in my mind that means one in that country cannot participate by taking pics vid etc containing sex related content. So playing or sessions through messengers like Kik telegram etc would be violating those laws. Based on the many many posts I’ve seen here it’s usually a solid plan. I’m not saying it’s fact I’m not saying my opinion or evaluation is the only way. But empty profile, limited effort, no pics Vids etc, no real content or discussion participation. So to me I’m not investing into that
I agree with the empty profile, limited effort, no real content or discussion participation and if what you say about the country’s ban to sexual related content is true, then I can understand your concern and conclusion. I only asked because I’ve seen the same issue with many other profiles from different locations all over the world and wondered why you specified this particular location.
Oh most definitely. Fakes frauds scammers are everywhere. Like I said it’s my view based on years of seeing tons of posts here, fetlife, collar me, MeWe,Kik, telegram, etc. I usually pay attention to lots of tiny details. That’s why a large portion of my posts here aren’t even seen due to calling out fake accounts here using the same Kik or same gmail or some other sign it was tied to a prior banned account. Those posts usually end up deleted when the member is banned or it ends up in the trash can. So of the posts of mine you do see here there’s probably double that I’ve actually written and they just aren’t here anymore.
hello, everyone
so as this is about BDSM and India, i thought i need to add as much as information i can.
i am not here to call anyone for calling anything.
so first thing the Law, India has total ban on porn and BDSM is a thing that was never allowed in India, due to the fact that it can lead to cases of domestic violence.
so the thing happens here is mostly people dont really see the front or back in BDSM, for most people its just a fantasy in words.
most people who are new are not aware that they had to do things in real life. which leads to fakes who are not aware that they are faking.
i agree the lack of efforts and everything else, but not everyone is fake due to such lack.
i suggest to talk to such people before pointing towards anyone.
so as this is about BDSM and India, i thought i need to add as much as information i can.
i am not here to call anyone for calling anything.
so first thing the Law, India has total ban on porn and BDSM is a thing that was never allowed in India, due to the fact that it can lead to cases of domestic violence.
so the thing happens here is mostly people dont really see the front or back in BDSM, for most people its just a fantasy in words.
most people who are new are not aware that they had to do things in real life. which leads to fakes who are not aware that they are faking.
i agree the lack of efforts and everything else, but not everyone is fake due to such lack.
i suggest to talk to such people before pointing towards anyone.
So with regards to this total ban you confirm. This means that any play on messengers where one seeks sexual pics or vids or posts sexual images here is breaking the law? That is the way i
Interpreted it when I read it as well. Which I guess means that aside from text based convo someone from India cannot participate in online based kink play.
But does breaking the law automatically point to being a fake, scammer or catfish? I think not. You made some serious points in reference to empty profile, limited effort and no real content or discussion participation but then like I said, I’ve seen many profiles from locations around the world do the same.
I also think subtilizer also made some serious points as well such as new kinksters are most often not aware of so many things which leads to a few major issues he pointed out. There is a reason droptokon started KTU and this falls under it for those who are uneducated and unenlightened and it seems this is a topic that should be covered as well. But then not everyone into kink are in it for something serious and longterm, a lot just want to play and that’s it and they need to learn how to do so honestly, safely and responsibly. If a submissive is not ready or able to share pictures and videos, then the submissive should look for a Dominant that would not mind exchanging messages only. It may not happen often but it does happen. There’s something for everyone after all. Does that make the submissive a fake or scammer? Again, I think not. I do understand the issue of confirming who it is you’re messaging and there may be ways around that. Maybe an option of doing voice calls? And also establishing clear ground rules that would minimize risk to both parties involved.
I also think subtilizer also made some serious points as well such as new kinksters are most often not aware of so many things which leads to a few major issues he pointed out. There is a reason droptokon started KTU and this falls under it for those who are uneducated and unenlightened and it seems this is a topic that should be covered as well. But then not everyone into kink are in it for something serious and longterm, a lot just want to play and that’s it and they need to learn how to do so honestly, safely and responsibly. If a submissive is not ready or able to share pictures and videos, then the submissive should look for a Dominant that would not mind exchanging messages only. It may not happen often but it does happen. There’s something for everyone after all. Does that make the submissive a fake or scammer? Again, I think not. I do understand the issue of confirming who it is you’re messaging and there may be ways around that. Maybe an option of doing voice calls? And also establishing clear ground rules that would minimize risk to both parties involved.
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Agreed all good points. Like I said. It’s my views based on years of seeing tons of posts on tons of sites and experiences and results from it all. Anyone can do as they wish. Feel free to reach out and contact them and see how it goes.
Here’s some other points I look for, again this isn’t necessarily an all the time thing but it’s a very strong likely hood:
-Spelling Kik like this K | K. It uses the line symbol and not the actual I. It’s to bypass keyword search bots on websites.
-gmail accounts
-accounts that have several numbers at the end like domme2222222
- Kenya as well seems to be heavy with pay for play.
- female dommes seeking female subs who use certain words that relate back to them being a guy posing as female. (I really can’t help you clarify here it’s just one I know when I see. I’ll call it and link next one I find for ya.)
- people who directly copy a prior persons profile or ad post and just paste it verbatim.
- people who caps lock the titles or have the whole format of the post all messed up in various font sizes
I’m sure there’s more but that’s a start.
Here’s some other points I look for, again this isn’t necessarily an all the time thing but it’s a very strong likely hood:
-Spelling Kik like this K | K. It uses the line symbol and not the actual I. It’s to bypass keyword search bots on websites.
-gmail accounts
-accounts that have several numbers at the end like domme2222222
- Kenya as well seems to be heavy with pay for play.
- female dommes seeking female subs who use certain words that relate back to them being a guy posing as female. (I really can’t help you clarify here it’s just one I know when I see. I’ll call it and link next one I find for ya.)
- people who directly copy a prior persons profile or ad post and just paste it verbatim.
- people who caps lock the titles or have the whole format of the post all messed up in various font sizes
I’m sure there’s more but that’s a start.
If we go based on location as a criteria to generally dismiss others, then that means every location in this world would not be left out. You’re a male Dominant and strictly straight, I’m a female Dominant who’s bisexual but lean more towards men than woman, a lot of our experiences may not be the same. You may not have said everyone in India is a fake but you implied it. There’s a major reason why I went out of my way to get verified and that is because of my current location and the extremely bad external image it has. I’m here to meet likeminded people, to learn and share and maybe meet a potential submissive, I don’t want something like where I’m currently residing to be an issue. Everything else you’ve said are strong points and should always be considered to filter out the fakes from the real.
Yes as you said, by participating in anything bdsm related we are more or less breaking the law.
Though as you may have heard before
Stealing is an art, as long as you dont get captured.
This is hilariously ironic you chose to post here. Lol enjoy the short time before your ban.
Im honestly not sure how I got it. I didn’t request it. So it must be based on messages and activity like the other ratings here. From newbie up to distinguished member etc.
