Yeah, this is a heavy one, but a definitely one that needs discussing.
Been in a BDSM relationship/contact or both, needs a lot of trust. Been in a BDSM switch relationship/contact or both, trust is even more important in my opinion. (Please no haters I know all relationship need trust to work. Just hear me out)
Trust in a switch setup is paramount in so much, as one minute you have all the control. And, the next you have no control. The emotional and mental energy you need to be able, to switch safely. Is enormous. You really have to have a strong sense of self and perspective. For that kind of emotional and mental gymnastics.
To be able to let your sub or Dom feel they can trust you, to switch and your stable enough. Takes a lot of "knowing thy self " " me myself and i".
Once you know yourself and trust is built over time and getting to know your Sub or Dom. You can have sme safe and fucking beautiful sessions. Being a Dom or a Sub.
Been in a BDSM relationship/contact or both, needs a lot of trust. Been in a BDSM switch relationship/contact or both, trust is even more important in my opinion. (Please no haters I know all relationship need trust to work. Just hear me out)
Trust in a switch setup is paramount in so much, as one minute you have all the control. And, the next you have no control. The emotional and mental energy you need to be able, to switch safely. Is enormous. You really have to have a strong sense of self and perspective. For that kind of emotional and mental gymnastics.
To be able to let your sub or Dom feel they can trust you, to switch and your stable enough. Takes a lot of "knowing thy self " " me myself and i".
Once you know yourself and trust is built over time and getting to know your Sub or Dom. You can have sme safe and fucking beautiful sessions. Being a Dom or a Sub.
