for me it's not a certain type of music, it's more specific songs and it would be too long of a list to put mention, but here's a few I listen to. again it all depends on the mood. just latley I've been leaning a bit on the gothic (well aside from red right hand, but I'm sure you'll understand why if you listen to it lol
Red Right Hand by Nick cave and the bad seeds
some songs by
NIN
Type-o-Negative
the 69 eyes
Our sex song for four 4 years is " I'll Make Love To You " by BOYZ II MEN. It's a good song for making love. Everytime I play this song, it makes me wet.
I think it depends on the mood obviously sweet and tender will call for different tunes than hot and sweaty. I know there are tons of songs I love for mood music but to hell if I can remember a one of them besides I want to say it was a Jodeci song "Freak me Baby"? it is pretty old school but it has always put me in the mood...
I don't like music either, or if any, prefer it to just be random quiet background music on a radio or somesuch.
Too much music can make the situation feel like a tacky porn movie, instead of something intimate!