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I can empathise with this, having recently been in a very similar situation myself. What helped me to a degree was not engaging in anything for a while, then slowly beginning self exploration and finally branching out with new connections and dynamics. It's not an easy process and I wish you the...

It is completely your decision as to what parameters you set when looking for a play partner. You do not need to justify these to someone else, just be wary that there are a lot of predators lurking around these sites and are ready to pounce at a moments notice. Take time to really formulate...

Interesting revival @nina , I have had a look at my list from 2019 and actually I would say that my list is largely the same, maybe just with room for some more pain and bondage related implements. I'm surprised that 4 years on my kinks are mostly unchanged.

@Thebrat I'm sorry you had that experience. Unfortunately any Dom/me who tries to blame you after safe wording is not looking out for your best interests and is not someone you can trust going forward. I do feel like 40 minutes is a long time without a check in to see how the pain is going...

I do think people need a degree of common sense that is unfortunately scarce on sites like these. You do a brilliant job of staffing these forums, but there is only so much a team of volunteers can do.

Stumbled across this again! Temperature play?

@submissivegal87 you are so very fortunate to be with someone who does support you this way and it most definitely is refreshing to hear. After all, a D/s dynamic is still a relationship that needs to withstand the ups and downs of daily life and normality beyond kink. I completely agree about...

Great post @submissivegal87, I think where I have struggled in relationships previously is because my partners and/or play partners haven't fully understood that being submissive is not just limited to sexual play, but actual is a very prominent characteristic of my personality which manifests...

Okay so I think we've established that the X in second position is the bull, it seemz like A and C are correct but their positions havent been verified yet. F, I, J, K, L are current posibilities. LXMNFIAC

I like this idea. EXYZABCG

I do like it here. It feels much more friendlier, open and less judgemental somehow. Yes, there are a few idiots who ruin it every now and again, but they are everywhere and it just takes a bit of strategic ignoring. I find the discussions in depth and often thought provoking, especially for me...

Girls just wanna have fun?

Hi there, I used to play exactly the same games with a cousin when I was younger and was completely addicted to porn when I first discovered it. I only came to the realisation that my love of the slave game was connected to my kinks a few years ago, and although it was a difficult thing to...

I don't think there is any one correct answer to this question. I think it is partially due to the differences between males and females and partly the fact that it is a kink site. The kink elements for some reason gives the impression that any submissive female is willing to submit to any...

Extremely well thought out puzzle @nina, thank you for sharing your process. Could the last one be TWICE? as a clitoris has twice the amount of nerve endings as its male counterpart.

Hmm...very difficult! 2. I have searched the controversy surroundings Cardi Bs dress and found that it has been likened to a carpet, train or red blood cells so possibly CELLS or even BLOOD? 4. Something that they had in common...possibly DESIRE? 6. Something to do with the peak or point...

Angels?

Just some thoughts...(its been a long time so I may be completely off track) @nina are all the images connected by concept? 1. Journey- E (Map shows a journey) 2. Cardi - R (The image is Cardi B in a dress) 3. Final - N (Shown as the last still image of Looney Tunes) 4. Psyche - C (Image...

From a submissive point of view, I have loved it when viewing of any porn was at the discretion of my dominant. That included what particular videos I could watch, how long for, and whether allowed to touch myself during. I think it depends on the degree of control that a submissive is willing...

Ohh fantastic, that was a good one!