Emma0130

Kinky Newbie
  • Bisexual
  • Female
  • Submissive
Dec 4, 2024
2
10
3
Hello everyone, i wanted to tell you all a little bit about my journey with kinks and all.
A few years back i found the world of DDLG, at first i thought it was a little bit weird but i started to love it. I found amazing people with that!!! I discovered a new part of me that was ready to come out.
However, nowadays i never get on little space and i found a much darker side of me. To be fair i knew it was there already i just never truly explored it and the reality is that im very into everything about humiliation. At time im scared thinking i shouldn’t be like that, other times i just want to open my legs and do whatever anyone tells me to.
I find myself getting wet on the bus just from thinking about opening my legs for a random passenger or sucking a random dude on a party and offering to do anything else he would like… maybe i should just find a Dom to use and abuse me and give him all the power to not have the need to think for myself again.
The reality is that i can only think about that, give all control away, be used and abused, get humiliated in any possible way, be objectified even…

I went from a princess that loves cuddles and is all giggles to a horny desperate slut…

Im not sure if this is normal
But honestly i couldn’t care less at the time
Im way too horny
 

Playfullwolfy

Kink Talk Member
  • Bisexual
  • Male
  • Dominant
Dec 16, 2022
44
18
8
35
I think it is normal, as the experience with the BDSM/Kinky life extended, the deep you drive the more kinky items you love to explore. So, changing from a cuddling daughter to a desperate slut is quite a normal move :) .

I believe you will soon enjoy more extreme and kinky items. However it could have a negative impact as with the time you may loose interest on regular kinky items and started searching for more extreme kinks.
 

Gengis

Senior Kink Talk Member
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Switch
Oct 30, 2024
196
86
28
Im not sure if this is normal
"normal" is such subjective word.... what is normal for some people may not be for others.
You are in a site where no nobody is "normal"... Hope i dont hurt your feelins, people... !!! xD

For me... i dont like flashing to extrangers, they probably wont be looking for taht and more than probably wont like it.
But wont judge, most of us wont
 

LossingcontroleSub/Dom

Kink Talk Member
  • Bisexual
  • Female
  • Switch
Dec 10, 2024
63
55
18
Uk....Northeast
Hello everyone, i wanted to tell you all a little bit about my journey with kinks and all.
A few years back i found the world of DDLG, at first i thought it was a little bit weird but i started to love it. I found amazing people with that!!! I discovered a new part of me that was ready to come out.
However, nowadays i never get on little space and i found a much darker side of me. To be fair i knew it was there already i just never truly explored it and the reality is that im very into everything about humiliation. At time im scared thinking i shouldn’t be like that, other times i just want to open my legs and do whatever anyone tells me to.
I find myself getting wet on the bus just from thinking about opening my legs for a random passenger or sucking a random dude on a party and offering to do anything else he would like… maybe i should just find a Dom to use and abuse me and give him all the power to not have the need to think for myself again.
The reality is that i can only think about that, give all control away, be used and abused, get humiliated in any possible way, be objectified even…

I went from a princess that loves cuddles and is all giggles to a horny desperate slut…

Im not sure if this is normal
But honestly i couldn’t care less at the time
Im way too horny
There's nothing wrong with you , because if there is then there's something wrong with me.
Enjoy being you yummy
 

Sguattero

Kinky Newbie
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Slave
Dec 8, 2024
29
7
3
Italy
I have been a Dom.
Sex sometimes Is like an addiction.
I had f subs that asked me a lot of tasks and then looked also to play with others.
No rules.. no true ownership.
If you think that a Dom can help you.. May be.. but only if your Need of ownership Is stronger than your Lust
 

Gengis

Senior Kink Talk Member
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Switch
Oct 30, 2024
196
86
28
Really? Just. Really? 👀
Reaper....
say more man. Allll you ever say is Hey.
why???
I whould say... he told you, right? he doesnt want to loose time. To be honest... i totally get it. Why whould he want to make an elaborate message for pay2play gurl or.. a bot... or... just be ignored?
You do itright for a certain ammount of times until you realized its just bulshit and you just loosing time and energy
So a plain, simple "HEY" should do. It is funny to watch from afar, tho :):):)
 
  • Haha
Reactions: LadyGrace321

Naughty nova

Distinguished Member
  • Straight
  • Female
  • Switch
Jun 10, 2023
353
371
63
Hello everyone, i wanted to tell you all a little bit about my journey with kinks and all.
A few years back i found the world of DDLG, at first i thought it was a little bit weird but i started to love it. I found amazing people with that!!! I discovered a new part of me that was ready to come out.
However, nowadays i never get on little space and i found a much darker side of me. To be fair i knew it was there already i just never truly explored it and the reality is that im very into everything about humiliation. At time im scared thinking i shouldn’t be like that, other times i just want to open my legs and do whatever anyone tells me to.
I find myself getting wet on the bus just from thinking about opening my legs for a random passenger or sucking a random dude on a party and offering to do anything else he would like… maybe i should just find a Dom to use and abuse me and give him all the power to not have the need to think for myself again.
The reality is that i can only think about that, give all control away, be used and abused, get humiliated in any possible way, be objectified even…

I went from a princess that loves cuddles and is all giggles to a horny desperate slut…

Im not sure if this is normal
But honestly i couldn’t care less at the time
Im way too horny
I have two very distinct headspace. One is little and is bubbly fun goofy cuddles playfully and horney and pain slut the other is sub and humiliation degradation pain bring it on. So no it's not weird. I can not chose what headspace I am in it's more of how I react to my dom at the time. Some bring out the little more some bring my sub space out. It's all a journey and about learning who you are.
 

Tryingtolearn

Kink Talk Member
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Dominant
Dec 15, 2024
32
21
8
35
England
I’m realising pretty quickly that it’s never that clear cut 😅 can definitely enjoy a mix of things you wouldn’t expect to work.. everyone’s different and wants/enjoys different things, that’s obvious..

The hardest part is finding where ‘you’ fit in each aspect.. least that’s what I’m finding so far 😅
 

LossingcontroleSub/Dom

Kink Talk Member
  • Bisexual
  • Female
  • Switch
Dec 10, 2024
63
55
18
Uk....Northeast
I think as human beings we like to put things into boxes and label them. For example "I'm a Dom" " I'm a sub" " I'm a slut" ext ect. That's all good and well in a every day thing. But when your exploring and beginning to understand, more about yourself. You begin to realise some box's you dofit into and some you don't. Hey there may not be a box for how you would describe your self or, not describe yourself. I use to think if I didn't fit into a certain box( straight,gay , slut, piggy ect ect. I wasn't normal or I didn't fit into box's others thought of. There wasn't a perrson for me or person's. What I'm trying to say yes others need a clear understanding of what you are. Dom, sub? Switch or whatever. Don't let people "pigeon hole" you. Keep looking for what YOU need. Take the advice and guidance, but always remember to stay true to who YOU are.
I love been a slut but I also love doing normal stuff with my partner/partners. If you have to kiss a few fish to get YOUR person. Enjoy doing it...it's OK to experiment, until you find what you are looking for...Good hunting ha ha ha....
 
Last edited:

LossingcontroleSub/Dom

Kink Talk Member
  • Bisexual
  • Female
  • Switch
Dec 10, 2024
63
55
18
Uk....Northeast
I think as human beings we like to put things into boxes and label them. For example "I'm a Dom" " I'm a sub" " I'm a slut" ext ect. That's all good a well in a every day thing. But when your exploring and beginning to understand, more about yourself. You begin to realise some box's you fit into and some you don't. Hey there may not be a box for how you would describe your self or not describe yourself. I use to think if I didn't fit into a certain box( straight,gay , slut, piggy ect ect. I wasn't normal or I didn't fit into box's others thought of. There wasn't a person for me or person's. What I'm trying to say yes others need a clear understanding of what you are .Dom, sub? Switch or whatever. Don't let people "pigeon hole" you. Keep looking for what YOU need. Take the advice and guidance, but always remember to stay true to who YOU are.
I love been a slut but I also love doing normal stuff with my partner/partners. If you have to kiss a few fish to get YOUR person. Enjoy doing it...it's OK to experiment, until you find what you are looking for...Good hunting ha ha ha....
 
  • Like
Reactions: Tryingtolearn

Featured Threads

New Personals