How far am I allowed to go

[Renegade Girl]

I’m new to all of this and I love the thought of sharing, but how far is too far? Are pictures encouraged or frowned upon?

Brutal honesty always appreciated.

Also, thanks everyone for being so welcoming! I’m really enjoying myself!

 

[Youwillcallmesir.]

Encouraged id say but entirely optional. Have many longterm playmates who arent comfortable sending and thats totally fine and still have some absolutely excellent play scenes just have to use a bit of imagination. Best to have a bit of a talk about it with any play partners beforehand to lay out the ground rules as to what you want out of it also.

 

[Renegade Girl]

Encouraged id say but entirely optional. Have many longterm playmates who arent comfortable sending and thats totally fine and still have some absolutely excellent play scenes just have to use a bit of imagination. Best to have a bit of a talk about it with any play partners beforehand to lay out the ground rules as to what you want out of it also.

Thank you! I will keep all of that in mind.

 

[conviction]

I’m new to all of this and I love the thought of sharing, but how far is too far? Are pictures encouraged or frowned upon?

Brutal honesty always appreciated.

Also, thanks everyone for being so welcoming! I’m really enjoying myself!

Be cautious about what you send though, even if you are willing I would advise to not send right away, it will get rid of a lot of the one and done people looking for a wank.

 

[Renegade Girl]

Be cautious about what you send though, even if you are willing I would advise to not send right away, it will get rid of a lot of the one and done people looking for a wank.

Thank you!

 

[conviction]

Thank you!

No problem, I sent you a more detailed conversation message, feel free to use me to ask anything you don't want to post publically

 

[Randy Magnum]

Anything you post can be downloaded and reshared. (Even against your will).

FYI - I'm not saying that this is OK !! it's just a possibility you can't control.

I'd advise only share what you're prepared to have downloaded and shared. If you do this, then you won't have any nasty surprises.

Unfortunately there are people who would love to see content to use against posters for blackmail, some of those people are on this site too :/

 

[Renegade Girl]

Anything you post can be downloaded and reshared. (Even against your will).

FYI - I'm not saying that this is OK !! it's just a possibility you can't control.

I'd advise only share what you're prepared to have downloaded and shared. If you do this, then you won't have any nasty surprises.

Unfortunately there are people who would love to see content to use against posters for blackmail, some of those people are on this site too :/

Thank you! I’ve heard this. Great advice & appreciated.

 

[akechi106]

If we are talking about here on KinkTalk, then there are rules about photos.

Encouraged, sure, but optional.

If you are going to post on your here, you are more then welcome too, there are just a few rules that need to be followed.

There is this things about your face being shown on here, you first must go through the Verification Process thread and follow the intructions in order to be Verified.

Last time I checked, there was this thing about Blackmail and sharing photos of others. Blackmail is, (last time I check, may of changed by now), not allowed, because there were problems with it in the past, at least here on the site it is not allowed.

As far as sharing photos of others, weither you are letting someone share your photos here or you are sharing of someone else, first, it must be known that permission was given by a user here on KinkTalk and if the user who is being shared, you or someone you are sharing requests the removal of them, that must be respected

I am sure there are other rules about photo here, but, I do not know them off the top of my head, there are Moderators you could ask directly if there are any other things you would like to know.

 

[subzzzero]

On the photo subject. General internet non members can view the posts without logging in at all so keep that in mind as well

 

[Renegade Girl]

If we are talking about here on KinkTalk, then there are rules about photos.

Encouraged, sure, but optional.

If you are going to post on your here, you are more then welcome too, there are just a few rules that need to be followed.

There is this things about your face being shown on here, you first must go through the Verification Process thread and follow the intructions in order to be Verified.

Last time I checked, there was this thing about Blackmail and sharing photos of others. Blackmail is, (last time I check, may of changed by now), not allowed, because there were problems with it in the past, at least here on the site it is not allowed.

As far as sharing photos of others, weither you are letting someone share your photos here or you are sharing of someone else, first, it must be known that permission was given by a user here on KinkTalk and if the user who is being shared, you or someone you are sharing requests the removal of them, that must be respected

I am sure there are other rules about photo here, but, I do not know them off the top of my head, there are Moderators you could ask directly if there are any other things you would like to know.

Thank you!

 

[Renegade Girl]

On the photo subject. General internet non members can view the posts without logging in at all so keep that in mind as well

I honestly didn’t think about that.
Thank you!

 

[Robbie86]

I’m new to all of this and I love the thought of sharing, but how far is too far? Are pictures encouraged or frowned upon?

Brutal honesty always appreciated.

Also, thanks everyone for being so welcoming! I’m really enjoying myself!

For me it is all about the moment. If there is a good "click" with the other person sharing pictures early on is fine. I'm usually cautious and share only pictures without face. Or in some cases a vanilla picture only with face.
I will not share pictures to people who demand it straight away. Usually you can't be careful enough.

Given all the advice from everyone: what will be your golden rule moving forward?

 

[Renegade Girl]

For me it is all about the moment. If there is a good "click" with the other person sharing pictures early on is fine. I'm usually cautious and share only pictures without face. Or in some cases a vanilla picture only with face.
I will not share pictures to people who demand it straight away. Usually you can't be careful enough.

Given all the advice from everyone: what will be your golden rule moving forward?

Golden rule: trust no one

No but seriously, i don’t think I’ll share anything I wouldn’t mind getting around. Unless I crazy trust that person.

 

[Robbie86]

Golden rule: trust no one

No but seriously, i don’t think I’ll share anything I wouldn’t mind getting around. Unless I crazy trust that person.

I think that is a very healthy approach.
Never trust a person who says you can trust him/her

 

[Renegade Girl]

I think that is a very healthy approach.
Never trust a person who says you can trust him/her

the original red flag

But you can totally trust me

 

[subzzzero]

the original red flag

But you can totally trust me

Trust me you can trust her.

Or can you

 

[Renegade Girl]

T

Trust me you can trust her.

Or can you

The betrayal is real!!

So mean @subzzzero! I’m the best.

 

[Robbie86]

Of course, everyone knows we can trust you. That goes without saying

 

[Renegade Girl]

Of course, everyone knows we can trust you. That goes without saying

See you get it.