Modifying a dildo

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I bought a new silicone dildo, it's softer than I wanted and bends under pressure. Which is more than a little frustrating.

I'm wondering if it's possible to stiffen it somehow by inserting a stick, stiff wire or dowel from the bottom. My other concern is if the suction cup would be affected by poking a hole in it.
 

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I bought a new silicone dildo, it's softer than I wanted and bends under pressure. Which is more than a little frustrating.

I'm wondering if it's possible to stiffen it somehow by inserting a stick, stiff wire or dowel from the bottom. My other concern is if the suction cup would be affected by poking a hole in it.
Adding something internally will definitely do it, the issue can be getting something inside it. Most of the silicone used for toys is difficult to work with as it resists attempts to cut or drill because of its softness.
I haven't ever tried but would expect the best way would be to add a length of 10-12mm dowel but not from the bottom instead by cutting a lengthways slit in it. As mentioned it is tricky to cut so you must use a really sharp blade and hold the dildo firmly (not in your hand in case you slip) cutting in just over half way through. Cut well away from both ends so they retain shape and stay intact.
Once opened up you will be able carefully remove a bit of the inside material to allow some room for the dowel. Then push the dowel into the slot fully and fill the slot using a silicone sealer (be sure to use a kitchen type as it is safe for skin contact) then wrap the whole thing tightly with tape to get back to the correct shape. Leave to dry for 24 hours to be sure the silicone is set.

I know this sounds like a lot of messing around but drilling a hole in this stuff can be very tricky, the drill can wander and come out the side really easily plus it may just embed itself without removing any material. It will also ruin the suction cup (as you suspected) whereas using the method I describe should leave it functional.
 
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Just a note: dildos with silicone suction cups are not too expensive (or depend on the market), you could buy another one rather than take your effort to change it. The fact that this is softer makes it useful to practice better deepthroating, easier than using a stiff dildo.

If you still want to modify it, I can suggest glue gun silicone bars. They bend, but 2 or 3 bars would make it kind of stiff. You might need to glue them to each other so when you bend the dildo the bars don't slide and possibly force against the suction.
 
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I would think cutting or modifying it in any way may pose a health risk. You'll be creating cracks and crevices that may not be easily reached when you go to clean your toy.
 
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This is a good point, it's actually good practice to use condoms on toys anyway as this ensures the contact area is clean. It also makes keeping your toys clean much simpler especially if you use them for more than one orifice.
 

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I think that I may just leave it as is and try to buy another one that's a bit 'stiffer'.

Thank you all for your help.
 
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I commented inspired by an YT video about making your own dildo using 3 glue bars. But I didn't try it.
Anyway, buying another is best. Keep the old one, is good for other games.
 

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I bought a new silicone dildo, it's softer than I wanted and bends under pressure. Which is more than a little frustrating.

I'm wondering if it's possible to stiffen it somehow by inserting a stick, stiff wire or dowel from the bottom. My other concern is if the suction cup would be affected by poking a hole in it.
You need a few things. 1 = an ice pick for puncturing a starter hole.

Note: do not make a puncture more than 60% of the dildo = never.

2 = a dowel either plastic or wood.

3 = a rubber END CAP FOR THE DOWEL.

Note: without the end cap, the dowel will dig around and tear up your dildo from the inside out.

4 = gorilla glue

Test insert the dowel without the end cap. Then remove, squirt some glue into the hole as well as the dowel. Place the end cap on with a dab of glue there too, and slide the dowel into your toy.

Allow at least 24 hours.

Now this will change your dildo from suction style however if you obtain a roll of hockey stick grip tape, you can wrap that around the protruding length and form a workable handle.

Note: if after test insertion of dowel, you may be able to cut it 1/2 inch shorter than the puncture and add caps at both ends.

This method offers the possibility the puncture will close around the fully inserted rod and with the rubber cap there in the hole will regain a suction effect as normal.

You would need a phillips head screw driver to insert the short cut dowel fully so that the 1/2 inch allowance would close tighly.

A 2nd method = buy and apply a PENIS SHEATH.

This would fit over and give a multi layered/density feel. Most have a botton strap that wraps under scrotum and on a suction dildo would loop around the base between cock and suction cup.

Of course there are TONS of suction dildos of all sizes and material under $20 at ebay, amazon, and aliexpress so you may be better off going shopping. Fun things always result when that happens.
 

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There's a person here that makes his own squirting dils, avec instructions.
I'm sure the same can be applied with a stiff rubber or plastic rod inserted.
I'd prefer the squirting dil..might have to try it on one of the "beater" dils ;-)

 

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I bought a new silicone dildo, it's softer than I wanted and bends under pressure. Which is more than a little frustrating.

I'm wondering if it's possible to stiffen it somehow by inserting a stick, stiff wire or dowel from the bottom. My other concern is if the suction cup would be affected by poking a hole in it.
I have used a coat hanger to stiffen a couple.
 

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I'd use a plastic coat hanger , with sanded/rounded sides/tips.
Might be able to seal the bottom hole with silicone (depending on the dil, if it's real silicone)
 

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I'd use a plastic coat hanger , with sanded/rounded sides/tips.
Might be able to seal the bottom hole with silicone (depending on the dil, if it's real silicone)
An ice pick. You want an undersize hole so it will snug the tube.

Use 6 or 8 mm clear silicone tubing like is used for cum through penis sounds. You can buy this on ebay.

You want the tube to STOP 1/2 INCH BACK FROM THE OPENING OF THE PENIS HEAD. That will mimic an actual spurt from tge real thing.

You want the tubing to extend 4-6 inches past the botton end. Buy a large syringe from ebay or amazon.

Large ones go from 50 - 150ml.

You can buy premade cum lube from several brands. This is what PORN USES.

A variant = plain or vanilla yogurt WELL STIRRED.

Fruit yogurts have fruit bits that might clog up but in blended flavors it may be doable especially with LEMON or KEY LIME both of which i have used on ladies with much appreciation.

With the syringe approach, simply filling the device with warm or mildly soapy warm water then pushing that through will clean everything nicely. Then remove the plunger and allow to air
dry.
 
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An ice pick. You want an undersize hole so it will snug the tube.

Use 6 or 8 mm clear silicone tubing like is used for cum through penis sounds. You can buy this on ebay.

You want the tube to STOP 1/2 INCH BACK FROM THE OPENING OF THE PENIS HEAD. That will mimic an actual spurt from tge real thing.

You want the tubing to extend 4-6 inches past the botton end. Buy a large syringe from ebay or amazon.

Large ones go from 50 - 150ml.

You can buy premade cum lube from several brands. This is what PORN USES.

A variant = plain or vanilla yogurt WELL STIRRED.

Fruit yogurts have fruit bits that might clog up but in blended flavors it may be doable especially with LEMON or KEY LIME both of which i have used on ladies with much appreciation.

With the syringe approach, simply filling the device with warm or mildly soapy warm water then pushing that through will clean everything nicely. Then remove the plunger and allow to air
dry.
Actually there are fake cum recipes all over the net.
The base is just corn starch in the right proportion with water and salt. Additional flavors (Vanilla) and a few optional "gross" things for everyone's taste, like egg whites or sometimes yogurt (even this is way far from reality). The recipe can also be found on Youtube unrestricted (I remember a girl trying and getting Ewww).

Some are using flour but I recommend corn starch instead because it looks and feels more natural.

Note: I had a long discussion way time ago about egg whites being dangerous for salmonella infections. But this usually happens often in warm regions as far as I know. Everyone knows his country and what eggs they are buying and their risk of infection. In my area, I just use raw eggs in cooking very often, making mayo for example, even if I buy them from the countryside, even if I never care to wash their shells as advised. So I don't care even eating them for a dare but if anyone wants to make fake cum and add raw egg whites, should consider this.
 
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hi i wouldnt cut it along the shaft as very difficult to repair
try drilling a 12mm hole from DJ TO SUCTION CUP AT BASE OF COCK AND INSERT A 10 MM DOWL THEN SILICONE HOLE UP
 

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