I bought a new silicone dildo, it's softer than I wanted and bends under pressure. Which is more than a little frustrating.
I'm wondering if it's possible to stiffen it somehow by inserting a stick, stiff wire or dowel from the bottom. My other concern is if the suction cup would be affected by poking a hole in it.
You need a few things. 1 = an ice pick for puncturing a starter hole.
Note: do not make a puncture more than 60% of the dildo = never.
2 = a dowel either plastic or wood.
3 = a rubber END CAP FOR THE DOWEL.
Note: without the end cap, the dowel will dig around and tear up your dildo from the inside out.
4 = gorilla glue
Test insert the dowel without the end cap. Then remove, squirt some glue into the hole as well as the dowel. Place the end cap on with a dab of glue there too, and slide the dowel into your toy.
Allow at least 24 hours.
Now this will change your dildo from suction style however if you obtain a roll of hockey stick grip tape, you can wrap that around the protruding length and form a workable handle.
Note: if after test insertion of dowel, you may be able to cut it 1/2 inch shorter than the puncture and add caps at both ends.
This method offers the possibility the puncture will close around the fully inserted rod and with the rubber cap there in the hole will regain a suction effect as normal.
You would need a phillips head screw driver to insert the short cut dowel fully so that the 1/2 inch allowance would close tighly.
A 2nd method = buy and apply a PENIS SHEATH.
This would fit over and give a multi layered/density feel. Most have a botton strap that wraps under scrotum and on a suction dildo would loop around the base between cock and suction cup.
Of course there are TONS of suction dildos of all sizes and material under $20 at ebay, amazon, and aliexpress so you may be better off going shopping. Fun things always result when that happens.