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Im lost. Why would I delete ? I’m just seeing it went from helpful to not helpful.

That being said. Gender does not determine the role in kink. So saying all females are subs is a huge misunderstanding. If anything sub males probably outnumber the dom males.
 
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Im lost. Why would I delete ? I’m just seeing it went from helpful to not helpful.

That being said. Gender does not determine the role in kink. So saying all females are subs is a huge misunderstanding. If anything sub males probably outnumber the dom males.
Well it's Generalization fallacy
Did you believe what u see ?
I do believe what i see so i haven't seen a real dom girl before every dom girl i have met she was just moody person
They're domme ( fake time inspired )
Then they turn too subby when they have a man
It's an biological reason
Females are sub yes maybe they have domme time but it's fake
 

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You’re entitled to your opinion. I’m just letting you know asssuming all females are subs in here will get you on the shit list fast and might negate any potential subs
 

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You’re entitled to your opinion. I’m just letting you know asssuming all females are subs in here will get you on the shit list fast and might negate any potential subs
Who said that ?
That's what i believe
If it's wrong I'm okay with being wrong till know and realise the right with a logical reasons
 

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This is like saying oxygen or a million dollars does not exist just because you have not yet seen it.

If you need to see a domme. @LadyGrace321 is a domme. So now factually you have seen one. Does it now show that dominant females exist?
Yes i Don't see oxygen but i see the impact of it and how it's affects on things
I can prove that we have oxygen with science
The question is u can prove to me with science that woman can be domme forever? A pure domme ?
Unfortunately u can't do this
 

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In that mindset your claim of being a Dom is also a falsity as it provides no proof you will always be a dominant.
 

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I'm looking for obedient slave who will do everything I say. I will create a schedule dedicated to her with all the tasks and punishments that she must perform in hers daily routine. I love controlling slaves and slaves only, not just those seekers
Dm I'm open to talk in general
Hi daddy
 

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In that mindset your claim of being a Dom is also a falsity as it provides no proof you will always be a dominant.
Who said that ?
Open up any biology book and u will see that Men are the dominant and Women are the Submissive
It's our chromosomes
 

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I think it’s honestly just an age and lack of experience going here. I’d suggest getting into your local community. Finding a mentor. Attend some munches. Learn about the lifestyle.

At 20yrs old you’ve been able to legally explore kink at best 2 years. Most clubs and dungeons actually limit to 21 and up. If we’re talking strictly biology here. Males don’t reach full maturity mentally/emotionally until mid 20s at a minimum. So on that biology fact. You are not yet developed enough mentally emotionally to take on a submissive and care for them and keep their best interests at focus, when you yourself are not fully developed.

Ironically old guard, high protocol, and the leather communities of bdsm. They started all people off in a submissive role to learn the craft and then advance into a dominant role after gaining the experience. I’m not saying this is the only way. I myself never subbed. I had a Dom mentor locally. But consider there is other ways.

If you’re going to enter the lifestyle with the narrow mindset of male =dom and sub=female, you’re going to set yourself up to be passed over as legit Dom.
 
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I think it’s honestly just an age and lack of experience going here. I’d suggest getting into your local community. Finding a mentor. Attend some munches. Learn about the lifestyle.

At 20yrs old you’ve been able to legally explore kink at best 2 years. Most clubs and dungeons actually limit to 21 and up. If we’re talking strictly biology here. Males don’t reach full maturity mentally/emotionally until mid 20s at a minimum. So on that biology fact. You are not yet developed enough mentally emotionally to take on a submissive and care for them and keep their best interests at focus, when you yourself are not fully developed.

Ironically old guard, high protocol, and the leather communities of bdsm. They started all people off in a submissive role to learn the craft and then advance into a dominant role after gaining the experience. I’m not saying this is the only way. I myself never subbed. I had a Dom mentor locally. But consider there is other ways.

If you’re going to enter the lifestyle with the narrow mindset of male =dom and sub=female, you’re going to set yourself up to be passed over as legit Dom.
I haven't say that
Women = sub
Men = Dom
What i say it's original of Male is Dom
And original of Female is sub
So any way you trynna change that it's okay
But it's not for long time it's moody
 

Sadist20

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I think it’s honestly just an age and lack of experience going here. I’d suggest getting into your local community. Finding a mentor. Attend some munches. Learn about the lifestyle.

At 20yrs old you’ve been able to legally explore kink at best 2 years. Most clubs and dungeons actually limit to 21 and up. If we’re talking strictly biology here. Males don’t reach full maturity mentally/emotionally until mid 20s at a minimum. So on that biology fact. You are not yet developed enough mentally emotionally to take on a submissive and care for them and keep their best interests at focus, when you yourself are not fully developed.

Ironically old guard, high protocol, and the leather communities of bdsm. They started all people off in a submissive role to learn the craft and then advance into a dominant role after gaining the experience. I’m not saying this is the only way. I myself never subbed. I had a Dom mentor locally. But consider there is other ways.

If you’re going to enter the lifestyle with the narrow mindset of male =dom and sub=female, you’re going to set yourself up to be passed over as legit Dom.
In my community there's no bdsm it's rare
And i haven't say that I'm a professional or even good enough into bdsm
But that's what i see and what i believe

Turning the Conversation into age topic and that I'm young it just like
you can't discuss Or convince me with your pov so you have escaped

It's not argue it's Conversation
We have different POV the Conversation is helping to make me understand your POV and you understand mine
 

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I whould say... age is important. It gives you prespective also a more tempered mindset.
I dont think subzero wanted to make it an age issue, but it is true that young people are more impuslive and more stubborn (thats not the word i wanted to use but can come up with it) regarding his own ideas and beliefs.
Age will make u question all that. You will see.
 

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I whould say... age is important. It gives you prespective also a more tempered mindset.
I dont think subzero wanted to make it an age issue, but it is true that young people are more impuslive and more stubborn (thats not the word i wanted to use but can come up with it) regarding his own ideas and beliefs.
Age will make u question all that. You will see.
Age not matter unless you're the smartest and the logical one
 

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Turning the Conversation into age topic and that I'm young it just like
you can't discuss Or convince me with your pov so you have escaped

I’m not turning the topic. Just trying to address factually that you have some growing to do. I’d like to see everyone succeed in the kink community. I’ve been involved in it for over 20yrs. I would never say my way is the only. I myself believe bdsm and kink is an always learning situation.

Your initial message is what brought me here to try and help.

I'm looking for obedient slave who will do everything I say.
This is a fantasy mindset. When you have no experience listed. No basic kinks. It makes it seem as if you do not understand how this works for real.

“I will create a schedule dedicated to her with all the tasks and punishments that she must perform in hers daily routine.”

This reads like you have punishments that will happen daily and do not require bad behavior to implement them. Basically I’m going to punish you just because I want to. That is not how punishments work. Again this is what the outside porn fantasy crowd thinks of bdsm.


I love controlling slaves and slaves only, not just those seekers”

With no prior tangible experience. (Assumed since you listed none and mention a lack of bdms community locally.) how can you determine who is a “seeker” and who is a slave?
 
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