Even though, I'd rather not entertain this thread, I'd like to weigh in and share a few important things that has to be addressed.
Starting from your experience. Based on your words and the comments that haa been posted by you, it is quite evident that you don't have the "
RIGHT" experience in BDSM. You might have had encounters where you both shared kinky things. But it doesn't seem like they were in the right track. The picture that we get from your posts is definitely not something that an experienced person would say.
To begin with, the initial post seeking a play partner, you didn't mention your kinks but you mentioned that you're a sadist. Also mentioned you'll schedule tasks and punishments along with giving hints that it's gonna be serious (since you don't need seekers). To break it down to you, if it was an experienced person stating this, there'll be things about their kinks, what kinds of things they're into. Just mentioning oneself as a sadist doesn't create any base for the reader to compare compatibility as there are different types of sadists. Not purely those who loves painplay. And even if you meant you are a sadist in terms physical pain, what kinds of pain play will you be doing? What can the sub/slave/ reader expect from that message.
Secondly, in your posts you threw around terms and posts that are quite absurd. Like "Pure domme" or "pure dom". If you were into kink for sufficient period, you'd realise that these terms are nothing but illogical fantasy. How can you measure purity of a dom/me?? If you meant that they're dominant the whole time of their life, I'll have to tell you that you're not only inexperienced, but you haven't seen the world enough. You also, questioned to prove dominance by science and mentioned male chromosomes are more dominant which magnifies the evidence for your lack of knowledge. Just so you know, male chromosomes are not more dominant than female. 99% of chromosomes are the same in male and female.
Finally, coming to the importance of your age and experience. It is clearly visible that age and experience sheds light into your wisdom and at the moment, it paints a picture of a young hot headed person who's stubbornness is coming in the way of learning and understanding. All the time while
@subzzzero was trying to help you to get better and was giving you chances and words to learn from, you kept ignoring them and turning the whole thing into a pointless argument. You have quite a lot to learn and I'm not saying that you're bad or wrong. But there definitely are areas which needs to be worked on. Accept, understand ans learn. Your young and agile mind is an asset. But you have to direct yourself in the right way. Because your words will be read by people who knows BDSM ans who doesn't know BDSM. While the people who knows it will try to correct you, there are people who doesn't know what's right and they'll think that this is what BDSM is about. And IT IS NOT!
Like we all said, try to learn, gain experience. Build a base with theoretical knowledge and then proceed from there. Know the basic principles like Consent, Risk, safety etc. Learn what each terms mean before you use them. And I'm sure you'll have fun.
Good luck
Devil
