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lol I'll stop and let someone else try...I'm just a sucker for word games. Might try and think up one soon too

Subdrop...?

That was brilliant Nina! I thought the second was some kind of circuit or switchboard...didn't get that it was ROM.

Topping from the bottom?

Sweet piece of ass? lol

Brilliant idea...I love these! Although that's a pretty hard one Nina, I'll give it some thought

Absolutely agree with that. I have exclusively subbed to females so verification of authenticity has been expected from both sides. In defence of males, there are so many fakes around that I don't necessarily blame them for wanting to check but there is a time and a place, and it should be done...

I completely disagree with this statement. Speaking from experience, 'having fun' but finding out you were 'cheated' afterwards taints the whole relationship and makes it not worth the time or effort you put into it.

Another interesting topic! Well I think it comes down to supply and demand and the issue of rarity. Females are much more in demand, and genuine females tend to be a little on the rare side, therefore there is more pressure to prove oneself as genuine to stand out from the crowds of fakes. Is...

A suggestion that might get around this is creating threads that are more specifically aimed at females. I've noticed a few and they tend to get more female responses, they're typically 'safer' to post in and encourage for females to get posting, by making them more comfortable in this way it...

I agree with Doc on this. It's completely normal and natural to want to please, speaking as an educator, it's the part of students that is most vital to tap into, but once they do have that feeling of 'I want to please you' then the rest falls into place. If we think about upbringing, most of us...

For me its both - i do prefer to lurk and read, and also I tend to get harassed by putting myself out there. it seems like on this site in particular, there is a lot of immaturity, and an awful lot of people trying it as fakes. There also seems to be a huge male/female imbalance. The few...

Very interesting posts and a few things have been mulling over my mind since reading them - things that maybe I hadn't made a connection to before thinking about it more deeply. The point Nina made about masochism predating exploring sexuality is extremely interesting, and actually yes it does...

I've found this post really interesting and thought I would offer an another perspective on humiliation and masochism from the point of view of a submissive who, in small doses, enjoys both. I agree with Nina's point that humiliation often induces feelings of subjugation in the submissive, and...

I do feel like some of the guys have a sense of 'entitlement' to the females around the site. Not everyone is interested in seeing your private parts, neither should that be enforced on someone without their knowledge or consent. It feels like a weird invasion of consent to receive an...

Well I think this is what has been the issue previously. Having started a non D/s relationship first then trying to incorporate some aspects into the relationship didn't necessary work. Having done it the other way round mostly, where a sort of friendship forms but with a view to progressing to...

Thank you both for sharing your views. I do think, as you mentioned Nina, that compatability is most definitely an important consideration. Having been a sub online for the most part of the last four years, I have realised that as much as you may like someone as a person, being able to submit to...

Stumbled across this and thought I would add some thoughts in a bid to be more active on the site (I prefer to lurk usually...). I have only explored mild humiliation a few times, and only with someone I trust very much. I feel that humiliation is something I do enjoy, but only in the right...

It's nice to know that there are others that share the same opinion. There's a difference between caring when you are effectively getting something from the sub and caring for their own good - it shows that the submission was taken seriously. There are too many people that have done a...

Thank you for your response. I completely agree with your comment, but that level of awareness is difficult to find. It's particularly hard when Dominants don't understand that that feeling can't be switched on and off at will, especially when looking at the end of a relationship. The complete...