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I may well do that! Thank you :)

For sure! I’m enjoying it here so far 😊

Can definitely see that! Its a shame there aren’t more active ‘real’ members rather than all the wannabe doms and cash grabbers 😂

It’s pretty easy to see the ones who are here for the right reasons.. so you’re all doing something right 😅

Totally agree.. I’ve not been here long at all but the amount of shit I see already is insane! Seems like the same few ‘real’ posters who actually contribute anything meaningful 😅

Seconded

As someone relatively new to the dynamics and still learning, thank you, this is a great thread for information! Whilst I had assumed a lot of the points already, it’s great to know I’m on the right track!

Glad to hear you worked it out! Sounds like it was definitely the right move to talk about it properly

Agreed, great overview :)

Absolutely.. again, you need someone that you work with.. The upside is, you’re in the right place to find what you need/want 😋 If you want to chat to someone still learning, I’d be happy to take your mind off things for a while, maybe you can enlighten me on some things haha

I feel like if your head is at that stage already, you maybe already know the answer? Sometimes it’s just not the right fit unfortunately 🤷‍♂️ I’m seeing that quite quickly, you either work well with someone, or you don’t but I feel like you may already have decided..

As someone who is still very new to the dynamics of.. well everything.. this sounds extremely stressful and I really hope you work it out for both of your sakes

Open to chatting to anyone though I’m not submissive :)

I’m D, new to the site but you can find more about me if you look 🤷‍♂️ Basics, I’m 35, male and from south England, lean more towards daddy/soft dom.. So yeah.. hi!

Also, thanks for replying! I already feel a little less out of place here haha

Haha absolutely! I’ll be around :) And yep, definitely from England.. AKA arseland rather than assland 😂

Very fair point, and one I’ll take on board.. Replies like yours is exactly why I came here so thank you 😅 been feeling a little ‘lost’ trying to figure out as much as I can haha

Yeah I get that too! The woman I speak to still, we speak every day for hours on the phone, voice notes, videos, video calls (when we can) but being both married makes it tricky to have enough time to really dive in.. She definitely isn’t as open as she could be with some things but lots of old...

Well thus far, I’ve only been able to explore online which makes demands very hard to enforce obviously.. I’m not really into pain play so haven’t explored that much and again, being primarily online restricts what ‘punishments’ can be given.. The two people I’ve explored with so far were both...

Thank you! I had a feeling that may be the case as they were fairly… standard? Questions 😅 I definitely feel I lean more soft/daddy than it said!